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If a man insists on going 50/50 financially is it because he doesn’t trust his partner? Or is it because he’s inexperienced in relationships?

There’s a couple that I know that are together for over 3 years now and right from day 1 the guy insists that they spit the bill 50/50…. they’re in a committed relationship way past the casual dating phase. For the guy...
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There’s a couple that I know that are together for over 3 years now and right from day 1 the guy insists that they spit the bill 50/50…. they’re in a committed relationship way past Show More
Lack of trust/inexperience in relationships
Wants to keep things fair and equal /cost of living has gone up
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How can I tell if he is into me? How can I give him subtle signs that won't scare him away?

So I have this friend of a friend that I have made recently in the past year, and over the time that I have come to know him better, I have found out that I really like him. Ideally, I would want our relationship to...
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Have you ever told a partner "I love you?" Did you mean it when you said it? Did the relationship succeed?

I have never said "I love you" when I did not consciously mean it, but I have said "I love you" when what I was feeling was some affection and excitement, but not love. In retrospect, I probably should not have said "I...
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Guys who dated many girls in the past are cheaters? Right or wrong? & Why?

I was chatting with a random guy I met online. We seemed to connect well because we have a lot in common. Our conversations are sweet and playful, and he has a good sense of humor. I inquired about his dating experiences,...
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Should women be allowed on interview panels when for jobs where men are applicants?

There is an apparent gender conflict going on that has polarised men and women with non binary usually tending toward the women's end that has created a lot of toxicity and relationship challenges that has seen a rise of...
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There is an apparent gender conflict going on that has polarised men and women with non binary usually tending toward the women's end that has created a lot of toxicity and Show More
Yes, women by nature are objective in their ability to appraise individuals in workplace scenarios and can be trusted to not prejudge men on their prior experiences with men
Yes, women have a sense that men are bad and will therefore be better at choosing the right man in a workplace scenario because he has the right qualities in her mind
No, women have an inherent fear of men that they subconsciously harbour and will prejudge men who "look" creepy, predatory, like previous partners, have something about them
No, men should be given the option of being interviewed for jobs solely on their capacity and qualifications to carry out the job by peers without the risk of their appearance, voice, height, fashion sense or eye colour
Neither, men and women are just as likely to judge men equally suitable for a role as criteria for jobs are pretty clear cut and superficial factors aren't taken into account by employers
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Is the reason he ghosted me bad sex?

I was going out on dates with this guy for about a month. He took me to really nice places and we got along really well. He told me that he liked me and he wanted to see me basically everyday. and made it seem like he...
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Why Dating Is So Damn Difficult For Us 🤬

I think newer generations (like older generations had in their own ways) have trouble dating because of something specific. Older generations didn’t deal with much dating and courtship like we have in present times. We...
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How can a person stop being afraid of love and go for it?

So I’m currently 35 and I haven’t dated since I was like 22. Young love. I know I took myself out of the dating world for years. I’ve talked to guys. My first and only real relationship only lasted for three months. After...
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Guys, When a Man Can’t Provide: Understanding His Struggle and How to Give Him Support?

So, what does it mean when a man refuses to take money from a woman? Let’s say it’s for transport or just helping him out in some way, but he refuses to accept it. This could even include buying him a flight ticket to...
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Is he interested, nervous, or insecure?

So I met this guy he’s 2 years older than me. We’ve known each other for a week and 3 days. The first time we got together we clicked so well. We come from a church background and we like to sing. That was a turn on for...
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What is your best advice to make a relationship work long term?

Mine is pretty stereotypical, but communication. Without communication, it won't work out. I also recommend first being friends and then turning into lovers. I was friends for 3 years before I started dating my current...
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Should I let him go?

This guy I know him from work and I like him. He asked me out to watch a movie and we kissed. He didn’t told his parents so i asked why and he said he didn't knew what he wanted yet. A week later he didn't text me anymore...
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Lose interest when I can have her?

I am 21 male, i never had a serious relationship but i would love to have one. But everytime i am 100% certain i can have it with a girl my interest just dissapears, i don’t know if i have a subconcious problem or...
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Girls, do you prefer if a guy initiates this way?

Assuming you guys are not in a relationship (yet)... I have heard that you should never tell a girl that you like her until you have at least been on multiple dates... I have a friend who told his friend of 2 years that...
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Assuming you guys are not in a relationship (yet)... I have heard that you should never tell a girl that you like her until you have at least been on multiple dates... I have a friend Show More
... asks you to hang out (1-to-1) first?
... asks you to a date first?
... says he likes you first?
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How do I find my first boyfriend at 34?

I've never put too much effort into finding anyone thinking it would just happen. I used dating apps here and there in my 20s but most of the guys either wanted to get laid or just didn't like me and ghost me after the...
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Why do guys rejected me for plain Jane/chubby women?

So I’ve been told I’m gorgeous all my life. I started modeling at age 17. I’ve been rejected for being skinny in high school and some guy told me, “If you put on some weight, you’d be more f*ckable.” Wow…. Even in the...
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I can’t figure out what the deal is and why I feel my boyfriend hides me to a certain extent?

I’ve met his family and they adore me, they always ask about me to him, his mom or his dad and they even text me & call me often and check in. I’ve met a few of his friends and they know of me (not sure the extent I’ve...
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HELP ME! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE. I (28F) married my husband (28M) 4 years ago and now I love someone more than him? what to do?

I (28F) married my husband (28M) 4 years ago and now I love someone more than him. We were each other's first love, and we love each other very much. But, I've been in a relationship with this new guy for 1 year now, and...
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Why am I so afraid to reach out to people in fear I'll bother them?

I really need to put a stop to this, as it's affecting the time I get to spend with family and friends (and we all know that this is not an unlimited resource), and it's also preventing me from forming more connections...
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Why did he turn me down the second day of being together?

We got back together after a year apart. We slept together the first night then the second night I tried for sex and he said no. He’d been seeing someone he wasn’t in a relationship with and told her it never would...
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We got back together after a year apart. We slept together the first night then the second night I tried for sex and he said no. He’d been seeing someone he wasn’t in a Show More
To do with the other girl / sex better with her
Controlling me
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