Search Results: how do you ask someone out

Why do men who have no interest in them want women to get pregnant?

I've had a couple of strangers ask me about marriage and kids. They try to convince me to find someone so I can get pregnant. I awkwardly have to keep telling them no as I try to exit the conversation. It's not just old...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When you're interacting with men, do you think it's harder to be an average looking woman vs. an ugly or pretty woman?

I feel like I'm average and being in the middle, you never know what kind of day you'll have. If they're not attracted to me, they either treat me like I don't exist or bully me. However if they find me attractive they'll...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I just attracted a girl out of my league and I’m a virgin, should I even bother?

I work in sales, so I’m a good bullshitter, probably how I got her interest. But it seems that I’ve gathered a woman’s interest. Thing is, not even that long ago she was making fun of male virgins and saying it’s a major...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this relationship worth it?

I’ve been in a 9 year relationship, no ring and no kids together even though I’ve expressed wanting those things. Recently I found out that he had hidden pictures and video of his twin brothers baby mommas boobs on his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

So um I told the man I had a crush on that I had feelings for him. But I got rejected I'm not surprised that I was rejected but it does kinda hurt?

He wasn't mean or anything told me he "could see me as a good friend but nothing and he was sorry if he gave me mixed signals on that" I'm supposed to hangout with him tomorrow as his friend. But I still hurt especially...

lucyvoid

Xper 5 Age: 26

How can someone be so ridiculously gullible in a relationship?

I was just reading a FB post about a colored couple holding their white, blonde haired baby. The baby is 7 months old. Baby looks nothing like them. She claimed their baby boy is the reencarnation of her deceased (died...

Danielle93

Guru Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

You think she’s interested or am I delusional?

I need some help figuring out if this girl I’ve been seeing is into me or what I should do I guess. So long story short I’ve been going to this coffee shop everyday for about 5 months now. And after a couple of months of...

Anon_numbers

Xper 1 Age: 32

Health & Fitness

Why do y'all use the worst excuses when someone asks if you want to date a fat person?

Yesterday I saw a post asking if you would date 2 women. They looked like they were at a healthy weight, but the comments called them fat. I started to look up other fat posts and saw that this community does not like fat...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I take his response as a bad thing?

I need your opinion on something. I asked the guy I’m seeing a while back if he’s hesitant of getting in a relationship with someone because he doesn’t have a work life balance, wants to be able to support the person, and...

rach27

Explorer Age: 45

Society & Politics

How do we stop men and woman being pitted against eachother?

So today I reunited with an old friend and he had just reunited with his ex and we're talking about how society is changing so quickly, it's making social dynamics and etiquette a lot harder especially for guys. Now I...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Family & Friends

Is it fair for my aunt to ask me to be home more often?

My aunt lives with me, and has trouble walking. I go to hangout with my mom a lot. My aunt had a talk with me about a week ago. She said that she doesn't like how im with my mom as much as I am, because she feels safer...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Other

If you could bring back someone who has died who would it be?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Asking someone if they had a kiss?

I don't know. Its soo random. Me and this guy kinda in a ‘situationship’ and he was teasing me having 100 boyfriends yadayada and talk about dont kiss a lot because its dangerous. Then out of nowhere, he ask me. If i ever...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are people with different physical traits and personalities more likely to be attracted to each other?

Usually I hear people say, "I’m waiting for the right person." When I ask them who the right person is, they define it as: "Someone whose mindset matches mine, who has similar interests and the similar personality...

capriVib

Explorer Age: 23

Flirting

Does the quiet pilot at work like me?

There’s a quiet guy at my job. He’s flies the station helicopter. there's him and I think he’s late 20s or so ( I’m 24 ) and then there’s another older pilot. The older pilot will always ask people to fly with him just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why doesn't he ask someone else from his roster or at least his homegirl?

My ex deleted 6 years of pics with me and whatever women he had after me off his phone so he could trade it in. He changed his mind & didn't trade it. But when, we started talking again, he kept asking if he could do a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why would a guy get angry when I rejected them?

Some guy approached me and said, “What’s up baby? Looking all good and them curves. Hot!” I was like, “Excuse me? I am not your baby.” He asked me out and I said no and walked away. He asked me two more times and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you ever double text when someone ghosts you?

So I started dating a girl I matched on an app about 2 weeks ago. The dates have been really great, we have been on 4 in total. We’ve kissed goodbye at the end of each date and it’s been really nice, but there hasn’t been...

Anonymous

(25-29)