Search Results: not ready to date

Does telling a male friend that I need a man/boyfriend in my life sound pathetic or endearing?

Lately I've really been needing a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I hate my job, and think that it could be the perfect time for an old-fashioned type guy and I to bond, since I'd be ready to just stay home and cook him all...

Bethany22

Guru Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Why do I feel bad about lying to her?

i give my boss notice that i was quitting she asked me to stay still end of march but no set date i agreed to that i texted her today asking her when my last day was she was off today. she asked if i could give her though...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

IIs it better to date older or a guy the age group as you first?

So recently I've been talking to these two guys right. The first guy is way older than me and he's sweet and gives me great advice on stuff. He takes care of me and looks out for me and I've learnt a lot of this from him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Guy at work acting weird.. How would you take his behavior?

I was seeing this guy for a while that I work with. A month ago, we discussed where we stood and said we are dating and just getting to know each other, but after having a great date and him going all out (buying flowers,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal behavior that he’s acting this way?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy keep going back to a women he’s not really interested in?

I have known my ex for 3 years we dated for a year recently he admitted that he was never ready for a relationship with me after he left me for his ex. why would he ask me for a relationship if he did not want to be with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Would you wait for a guy you loved if he wasn’t ready to commit or walk away?

I’ve dated my boyfriend for almost 3 years, he is from a traditional family and as his parents are both a bit older and he wants to look after them and isn’t strong enough to put our relationship first. He doesn’t know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What shall I do?

So I recently started a new job about three months ago… about two months in and this guy that works with me starts flirting with me by teasing me and bumping into me etc. I play along because it’s banter. He’s turning 30...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How long does it take you to get ready for a date?

Avocadorable

Yoda Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

She likes me but rejected me, can I change her mind?

There's a girl from work (22F) that I (23M) thought was really cute. I began asking about her and everyone told me she was the nicest person I could ever meet, however, when I tried chat to her she seemed really shy. At...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

He broke up with me but texting just to check in and liking my IG stories?

I dated this guy for 2 months, he was not ready for a relationship and wanted to take things slow as he has a lot going on business wise, and just got out of a toxic relationship a year ago. We were both really good to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is my ex getting mad when I talk to other guys if he’s talking to other women?

So my ex who is also my baby daddy. 6 months after break up I noticed he’s talking to some girls and they hangout and all but after that they stopped talking to him….. At that I wasn’t talking to no men, but I started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex wanted us to be friends because he’s not ready for a relationship and now that I moved on he’s acting jealous?

My ex wanted us to be friends after we had a bad break up he told me he was never ready for a relationship we have known each other for 2 years and dated for 6 months. the first few weeks of us just being friends was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do I ensure a relationship with this guy?

I've been IN LOVE with this guy since high school. He really is a great person. We started hooking up when I was about to be a senior in high school and he was going back to college. We always had an amazing time...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Third date fail, was I wrong to bring a friend?

So, i’ve met a guy on a dating app, when i saw him for the first time, i was not very attracted by his appearance, but by his photos on the app. He was a bit shy and he came visiting me to my city because, we are 1 hour...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I want a girlfriend but these are my two options. Who would you rather date between a racist or an easily triggered girl?

Girl 1: she is racist but is nice. What happened was we got into politics and black people and Mexicans got brought up. She said a lot of bad things. Said the literal n word and said Mexicans almost kidnapped her to rape...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl 1: she is racist but is nice. What happened was we got into politics and black people and Mexicans got brought up. She said a lot of bad things. Said the literal n word and said

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Guy's Behavior

Why is he acting cocky after he confess that he likes me and knows I like him?

He sent me a drunk voice message saying “Don’t be mad at me my love you know I like you a lot.” Then next day when he was sober he kept telling me that he likes me and wants to date and marry me but I rejected him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Been dating a guy for jst about a year he dsnt want to commit but when we go out he wants/does take pics together?

He says he's not ready to commit (classic) but we still go out ever once in a while and when we do he's always really sweet respectful and romantic to a point that I wonder why he does it if he doesn't even like me like...

JustAGirl393

Xper 2 Age: 25

Dating

Why date if you're unhealed?

Why do some people get in the dating world toxic and unheated thinking people will date them like that with baggage from their past? Or not ready for a Relationship?

cth2188

Explorer Age: 37

Dating

When you meet someone do you go straight into a relationship?

Or do you become friends and court them? I'm noticing that when I meet people, they want to jump straight into a relationship or put a title on us before we even meet. How can you say we're dating when I never met...

Anonymous

(36-45)