IIs it better to date older or a guy the age group as you first?

[Anonymous]

So recently I've been talking to these two guys right. The first guy is way older than me and he's sweet and gives me great advice on stuff. He takes care of me and looks out for me and I've learnt a lot of this from him and stuff. The second guy is about 3 years older than me and we get along pretty well we click. He's very mature and respectful towards me and we can talk about anything for hours on end actually. And we enjoy each others company. But I think personally I'm not emotionally mature enough or ready for a relationship yet and I should just stuck with older guy so I can learn more about men and figure out what I want in a relationship cause he has actually given me some helpful advice on stuff.

[SteveSmith1985]

You should date the guy your own age. For sure. You don't want to be a "pupil" you want to be a girlfriend. Date someone your own age and learn together.

If you don't want to date either, then don't date either. But don't date the older guy while you figure it out. He is not going to be helpful to you here. That's a bad way to learn about men and relationships. This is an easy one to answer to be honest.

[Guy13]

Date your 20-24 age and deal with immature boys. 26 year old man ought to have a design that is close to a house downpayment.
You are looking for a man that can lead with a clear vision and plan as well as a personality that can withstand your opinion and critique. It’s a We, thing.

[midnightcavern01]

Older men r less Likely to stray but you will feel out of place in social gatherings or at events since he probably has more life experience. Dating someone closer to your age, you can relate a lot more and mature together. They're also a lot more open to change

[annabananna]

If you aren’t ready for a relationship don’t overthink it and just hang out with who you enjoy being around.

[Anonymous]

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