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Search Results: pursuing him
Was it justified?
Since mom left us Dad and i have lived together and it was all great. He has always been caring and gave me freedom to pursue anything i wanted. Last week though everything turned on its head. A male friend and colleague...
Reezzzee_ness
Xper 1 Age: 29 Is He Worth It, or Am I Setting Myself Up for Heartbreak?
So, for context, I (18F) have developed feelings for my friend's older brother (20M) over the past couple of months. Recently, he asked me out via text, but I've been picking up on vibes that he might not be all that...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I file a restraining order against my boyfriend?
I am not sure at what point i should pursue legal action against him or if i should. I don’t feel safe with him anymore he is unstable and he does irrational things. We had a fight in my car recently (he was driving it)...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he tell me I can only have sex with him and no one else or cutting me off?
we used to talk but He wanted to be friends due to constant backlash, does that mean he still wants to be with me? Is he still trying to pursue me in later time? how should I even take that if we’re just friends now.
Delilahh
Xper 1 Age: 27 
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I know he's genuine or a catfish?
I've been chatting online to a man for almost 10 years, we've always chatted about meeting up but never really made plans. We chat about our failed relationships or relationships we are in and just stuff in general, kinda...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would a guy want a “low value “ broken woman to begin with?
I know I’m not high value… I have low self esteem, I seek male validation and I don’t dress modestly on the internet… I will never trust a man who isn’t degrading me or wanting just sex. I could never trust a man who...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need advice about a guy?
It’s all in the photos below Do you think it was a date? Was he flat out not interested in me and just being nice OR just couldn’t pursue further as he was moving so soon?
sarieee
Xper 3 Age: 25 My friend is having an affair with a married man and I think it's gross. How do I maintain the friendship?
My close friend has been sleeping with a boyfriend from college that is now married with 2 kids, after she got divorced recently. I find it disgusting that she is willing to engage in an on-going affair with a married man...
Anonymous
(30-35) When a guy says you’re cool?
I’ve hung out with this guy a couple times and him and I are friends before anything else. His body language is positive and when I’m with him he’s always affectionate and comfortable around me. I don’t know how to...
nicole_rodriguez00
Xper 1 Age: 26 I'm lost and confuse. Advise please?
I'm at the point where I'm not sure what should I do in my relationship. Whenever she is in a problem situation, I offered my help stating my opinions because I'm an overthinker so I look in many different pov but when I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, What makes you feel it's ok for a particular guy to pursue you?
Ladies, a guy approaches you and strikes up a conversation. What aspects of your exchange make you accept his advances and his invitation to go out, date, etc?
What do you consider a connection worth pursuing?
You meet someone, feel some sparks and feel a connection with this other person is possible... What signs tell you that this will be a connection worth pursuing?
Why are some or most guys disrespectful or don’t care for trying to pursue a woman who’s already taken by someone else?
Like it’s when a dude tends to push up on a woman who’s already taken and she states to him that she is in a relationship and loves the man she is with; she’s not the cheating type to be known. But then the guy will still...
Am I a bad friend for having a crush on my best friends brother even after she said she didn’t like it?
i’ve been best friends with my best friend since high school we are now both 21, i’ve known her younger brother for as long as i have known her and i’ve always gotten on well with him and found him cute. in high school i...
Anonymous
(18-24) When do you know how to give up on pursuing someone? Is it too late?
BEFORE ANSWERING: I messed up with someone I am interested in. How can I get back on his good side? (Please read the first post and the answers on it. There is a thread below on one of the answers which gives all the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever fooled around at work?
I was early 30s and divorced. Job in a town over from my home town. Got to slowly but deliberately know this woman that worked on the 4th floor. I was in the 3rd. I saw her photo on company website and I was like.. hmm....
RyanR03
Xper 4 Age: 50 
Dina_Melissa19
Xper 6 Age: 29 Did he break no contact just for attention?
I was involved with a man a few months ago who plays drums in a band, he’s pretty good and well known in our town and getting more popular in the state and playing lots of shows etc. We’ve been friends since high school,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is there actually any difference in men and womens dating behavior?
If you take away the fact that most women have more options and can be more picky, it seems like there's no difference. If a guy is attractive enough women will behave like men. They will message him first, pursue him,...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 