Search Results: reasons to break up

I believe I already know the answer to this. when you ask your ex?

... Is reason we hardly talk now is because you’re attempting to distance yourself from me, And saying that you just wanna be friends serves the purpose of softening the blow of the break up? Her reply: NO, I'm just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I trust him again?

I feel like I am losing feelings and trust for my boyfriend after a misunderstanding and I don't know what to do about it. I was recently put out of work because I was covering maternity leave at my last job and the lady...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do you normally leave a relationship?

What is the most common reason you would or have broken up with someone?

stratford

Yoda Age: 37

What is the most common reason you would or have broken up with someone?

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Family & Friends

Would you want to know I've attended anger management classes?

After an ugly break-up a couple years ago, which was indeed my fault, I sought counseling and attended anger management classes. I didn't do it with the purpose of winning him back though but to become a better, stable...

Anonymous

(30-35)

After 7 months of dating + talking about what we both want and need.. Im the only one seeming to improve for the relationship.. what should I do?

I'll make it simple.. I really love her and my intention is to marry her. I'm no saint but my every intention with her is to build a loving family and home with her (as we both came from bad families) Dating my girlfriend...

PaulieRitcher8908

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guys behaviour - give your honest opinion?

we had discussed a visit and had everything planned for it. he gets sick. Like having episodes and like low pressure and such. On the morning of the flight, i woke up with his messages saying he is not coming since he had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you guys think it was my fault to receive this treatment from him?

He used to criticize women (that’s the main reason I acted this way) and played this 2 week game we’re he was texting first until he told me he wanted me to text ave called him first. I broke up with him twice. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is this girl a red flag, should I stop?

I'm talking to this girl. We have phone calls every night. She very recently broke up with her abusive boyfriend but sometimes she says she really misses him. I make her understand this guy wasn't meant for her. Then she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

The effects that sugar has on your brain and body

Sugar is everywhere, from the morning cup of coffee to the late-night dessert. In the United States alone, the average person consumes about 17 teaspoons of added sugar per day, far exceeding the American Heart...

YesterdaysChild

Xper 7 Age: 59

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Was I insecure? Or was she emotionally abusive?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?

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Will he miss me?

I have given up on a 7 year situationship. We was never together; but we was always more then friends. I felt exhausted the past few months, I put so much energy and time into him. He would let me down more times than...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it normal for your life to fall apart after a breakup?

Broke up in may moved into different apartments back in August. My work is very toxic to the point where it’s caused me to go on medical leave for mental health reasons

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why he keeps coming back just to leave me on read?

As soon as I unblocked him, he started following me back then told me “I love you “ then left me on read. He clearly told me not to contact him anymore but because I changed my looks or not sure he came again. After I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what does it mean when he says he doesn’t like you but yet still stares at you with eyes like he wants to talk to you but gets too shy?

Ok so, about 2 years ago, I REALLY REALLY liked this guy and since our school was selling Halloween candy bags and I asked my friends (we are no longer friends) at the time if I should get him candy and so they told me...

slipknotiscool09

Xper 1 Age: 29

My ex lover wants to be friends?

We broke up last month on the 24th. We start back talking last Sunday. We had sex and keep having sex but he doesn't want to get back with me yet? He too busy helping his sick mom. He told me yesterday the reason we broke...

iwannaknowrn

Xper 3 Age: 26

Could I attempt friendship with an ex?

I dated someone two years ago, he broke up with me, and it was messy on my end. I got over it about 8 months later and had neutral thoughts about it. It's been two years and recently something horrific happened with his...

Cmoreins

Xper 5 Age: 39