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The truth the Medea will never say because it caters to society not truth. People now a days want freedom to treat others the way they want, without being looked as doing any wrong. In society people want the freedom to accept and reject anyone they like without being at fault of consequences, even if it to their own kids.

Emotional abuse is now so common, because people want the freedom to raise their kids as they wish without any negative look. But with that freedom comes responsibly. But that is the problem no one takes responsibility for their actions and so much now that is looked at as normal is Infact abuse. 99.999...% of people who are LGBTQ have been abused as a child. A transgender develops because the child is rejected emotionaly do to the parents wanting a child of the other gender. This makes them grow up thinking they was supposed to be the other gender. This is why the LGBTQ community is so large now, because of emotional abuse.

If someone is rejected by their family what about society. When a mind is rejected by family it looks to society and other members in the community to find a sense of belonging and acceptance, but society is not nice to what it rejects. Society also dose not care about the person only the labels it puts on people. Is it the person who is LGBTQ fault they was abused? Dose being abused make them a bad person? Or maybe it is someone who was wrongly accused and/or charged. But society dose not care about truth only the labels they see that is put on the person by society.

So what happens when a person can not find any acceptance or feeling of belonging? Read this page (psychologicalscience. org/news/releases/social-acceptance-and-rejection-the-sweet-and-bitter. html)

What happened in Tumbler Ridge BC was nothing less then society rejecting and isolating someone who was not accepted by their own family. This made the person to suffer as they seen all others being accepted, they could not take it any more then took revenge.

I've been thinking, and I've come along a train of thought which holds not wanting to ask for help as a culprit for a ton of issues I've faced in the past.

As a guy, there is a desire to not rely on others for help and to handle things alone, but this is a dangerous idea as it encouraged me to step outside my lane out of a desire to prove I can handle it.

This is a huge barrier to progress as a desire to handle things alone doesn't mean I will succeed, it just means I need to step back and humble up, ask the right questions, have an experienced person handy, and then maybe.

But this "I gotta do it alone", that needs to stop. While I don't intend to rely on others, I do intend to educate myself more, explore my natural skillsets while gaining new ones, and knowing my place.

One instance where I felt ashamed to accept help was last year when I was hospitalized for a serious lung infection which came as a result of my alcohol problems leading to being taken off Trikafta, a medication for my Cystic Fibrosis which has done nothing less than give me a new life.

Now alcohol is gone, Trikafta is back, coughing and labored breathing are gone, too. But in the hospital, I recieved IV antibiotics, but the IV machine kept on stopping.

Not wanting to keep bothering nurses when all I needed was the IV machine to go back to working, I asked one nurse how to fix it, so I wouldn't be such a burden on the staff.

She giggled and playfully hit me with a newspaper, she was right, those liberties aren't mine to take, the whole reason I was sick, at all, is because I was an irresponsible mess who drank more rum than Jack Sparrow.

This issue was fixed by a PICC line being inserted in me, which I used to finish my rounds of antibiotics and from there, I changed my life but I still feel ashamed to keep hitting the call button when I just needed the machine to work again.

Have you felt ashamed to ask for, or accept assistance from others?