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Again, not meant to be taken seriously. But after my latest take about exes/zodiacs, I’m trying to see something here. I was probably the most physically hurt by a Capricorn and Aries. However, emotionally, I have noticed the heartbreakers tend to end up being the air signs AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LIBRA, and also CANCER and SAGITTARIUS. Anyone else experience this? If you’re not sure of the person’s zodiac sign, tell me their birth month or google it.

My experience-

-Cancers usually have the looks and personality. They could truly be the whole package if they allowed themselves to be. But they seem to fear commitment and I don't know why because they don’t seem like the cheating type. Maybe they just fear getting hurt so they hurt you first.

-Sagittarius will show you in so many ways that they want you. But the problem is they never only want you. You tend to be just one of the people they are after. And if you confront them about it, they will go to the lowest of lows and say the meanest things (or simply shun/ignore/avoid you) just to get out of looking like a player.

-Gemini will be all for you. But they let their insecurities get the best of them. So once you’re ready to give things a go, then suddenly they forgot they wanted to be more than friends.

-Libras are hard to understand. Just like Gemini they are all for you. Just like Sagittarius they show you they want you. Just like Cancer they have the looks and personality. But one day they’re just suddenly not interested for long. I think they miss flirting with others too much and just choose not to commit for the timebeing.

-Aquarius only want company from certain people at certain times. One minute they’re interested and the next they forget to show they still care. They want to commit but question when they should. It will drive you to leave them and then you both end up hurt from the lack of communication and not sharing one another’s love language. #FeelFreeToList

My fiancé and I have been together for 4 yrs-engaged for 1 yr. I moved to his home state and into the home of him and his grandma. There’s no real drama except our relationship is done it seems

Today is his birthday (12/14) and he sends me this text.

His grandma was out of the house since she was in the hospital leaving us alone almost 6 days. For once he didn’t have to keep doing everything little thing she asks him to do and he had peace for once. But I noticed he was “bored” a lot. That alarmed me since he wasn’t taking advantage of the peace and freedom he had for once.

We are in our mid 20’s and he has never had the house alone in years! So it’s weird he wouldn’t enjoy it. But I’ve come to the conclusion that he likes taking care of her EVERY single need even if he has no energy to focus on himself let alone OUR RELATIONSHIP.

Don’t think I’m jealous & inconsiderate & don’t want him taking care of his grandma, that’s what I admired about him. I work all day so by the time I get home @ 6/7pm I only get 1-2 hrs of his time and in the mix of that she’s calling him to get something else.

it’s to the point where we haven’t had any dates but our weekends consist of running errands for her. I tell him I wants dates but that’s hasn’t happened.

I tell him we need quality he shuts down and gets upset as if I’m asking for too much. The topic of getting or saving up for our own home is now contingent on his grandma’s at home nurse capabilities on taking care of her. But 2 months earlier we agreed to start saving.

Is he breaking up with me?