Search Results: guys avoiding girls

Guys can pull away to protect their own feelings when they are falling in love? True or BS?

Guys question for you: Is it true that some guys may pull away, become distant and even avoid the girl when they start developing feelings for her if he thinks he might get hurt? Hypothetically due to incompatibility,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The "Friend Zone" and what "Just Friends" Means To A Man

Friend Zone- A situation in which a friendship exists between two people, one of whom has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in the other. "I always wind up in the friend zone, watching them pursue other...

DaveJord

Editor Age: 49

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Is she testing me? What do I do?

I began to date a girl from work and things developed really well really quickly, however a few weeks ago our relationship peaked and since its been downhill since. She began to have stuff going on in her daily life at...

Expressomantini

Xper 5 Age: 27

Should I leave her alone?

Girl [23] found out I liked her through somebody and that I wanted to ask her to talk. Since this moment she avoids eye contact and gets fidgety and nervous when she sees me around that it’s so obvious, she’ll see me and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A good first date leads to a good second date: some advice and suggestions

This MyTake was inspired by a question recently posted by @AnnaTumbles: What first date tips do you wish everyone knew? First, why is a 67 year-old dude giving advice about dating? Because I have been dating, or in...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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True love or obsession?

A girl (17f) glances over at a guy (20m) from across the room and ever since she initiated this, he becomes interested in her. He then sees her months later, and keeps turning around to look at her, and at some point he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

True love or unhealthy fixation?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I forget a girl who friendzoned me?

Guys, It's been a month after our breakup but I still can't move on. I avoided texting her but I still stalk her sometimes. But I don't want her back because she's childish and selfish person. She's just not my type. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I just met this guy online that is acting a little TOO friendly. Is he just bad at talking to girls or are these red flags, he's creeping me out?

I want to first say that he goes to the same school I do and is in some of my classes so I can't just block and avoid him. No, I'm not romantically attracted to him, I just haven't been able to make many friends yet and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, My preference is impossible to find?

I'm just looking for ONE within reasonable proximity of my location that actually aspires for the same as me.. but I'm concluding that it's an ultimate rare find. So.. I'm posting this so that the rest of them from the...

CocoaMocha

Xper 2 Age: 31

Is he nervous or not into me?

Please give me some insight on this situation. Background: I've been friends for a year with this guy (let's call him Bobby), a lot of women are attracted to him because he's very nice and thoughtful however he never...

bdeakol

Xper 7 Age: 31

Is my manager subtly flirting with me?

We had a work event for employees that had food, drinks and games set up outside the building. During our break, my boss and I ran out there to grab food to bring back. The store manager was there too. At one point it...

silverscarlet1

Xper 2 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Is all lost? Is she upset with me?

I’m the new guy at school. I’ve become really close friends with this one girl who’s been here a while. I took her out with me and we really connected. The rest of our classmates noticed how close we were and started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it true that girls don't like poetic guys?

Is it true that girls don't like and do their best to avoid poetic and philosophical guys?

dreamywind

Xper 2 Age: 39

If a guy says "I always get what I want"?

What does that mean? Does that mean that he's probably a spoilt and entitled person? This guy who was wanting to date me had broken another girl's heart, and had a history of being horrible to women. He told me "I always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do people always avoid me?

So I started a new school in April, but I was really quiet I never really spoke to anyone outside my class. After school I just go home straight without talking to anyone but, I really wanted to change because I noticed I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Have you ever wanted to befriend a person close to the narcissist?

This narcissist is a flying monkey and friends with my ex from my last relationship. I dont talk to either of them but this narcissist has two sisters who are always friendly to me. I would become friends with his sisters...

Anonymous

(36-45)