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So there’s two girls.. let’s call one of them April. She been with her babydaddy over 12 years now. Well she has a history dating multiple men. nevertheless, she kicks them out and run back to her babydaddy. This girl we can call April got involved with a married man. She knew about the woman but didn’t know the man was married. However, her sister knew the entire time but didn’t tell her. Multiple family members knew but didn’t tell her.
she was giving this man money and couldn’t even get the man to even pay a bill for her. She was taking care of a man with two jobs, who still is married to his wife.

another woman we can call “Daph” was another woman involved with this married man. Spent more than 10k on him and was giving him advice about the other woman April. The married man was calling both women to get advice and to vent about one another. The married man always referred to them as “friend”. Daph found out he was married by Facebook.

the married man wouldn’t let either one or their relatives tag him in anything on Facebook. he didn’t add either woman on his social medias. You weren’t allowed to post anything romantic on his page. He had post approval on.

well the girl April found out about the married man but couldn’t get information on her, so she started digging.

The married man has his wife living like a queen. Both women are currently trying to fight the wife. The wife is a stay at home wife and has a private chef. She gets her own money. they just bought a home together. his wife don’t have to worry about anything.

all this went down on Facebook.

Do you think going to college is important?

Something I learned by going to college is that it's huge amount of money being paid for self studies. I learned almost everything from the internet and from studying together with my friends. Surprisingly many of the straight "A" students know nothing beyond the lecture notes, they memorize it then spit it on the exam papers. There are smart students I know who are not good with exams but they have practical knowledge and how to apply the knowledge in the real world, but they don't get recognition.

Seriously I had to go to college to realize that a degree doesn't mean much, and that there are too many smart-asses than actual smart people.

Going to be 30 soon & ask myself why I’m incapable of being in a relationship with a man, people can say that I’m picky but I don’t fully believe I should take all the blame. Female friends I’ve had in the past seem to get dates easier/are okay with putting out & some have unintentionally made me second guess my looks, as they seem to have it easier yet other people have told me I’m equally/more attractive than they are. The last time I “dated” someone was when I was in my early twenties & I’m glad that ended because this guy felt like settling. It justifies that love isn’t blind & it’s better to be alone vs being in a mediocre relationship. I know I’m not all that but I feel like I should be able to attract quality men, all my life I feel like I’ve been invisible to men. I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d like to date (don’t count dating apps) & the very few times someone told me that a guy found me attractive (normally a guy I also thought was attractive), they never told me directly & it was always word of mouth.

I feel like I am cursed, that last person I saw in my early twenties was through a dating app & that’s how I’ve met all of these men I’ve met up with. The apps are continually getting worse & they’ve always had a bad rep, getting matches are never an issue it just fails to go anywhere for a number of reasons. And sometimes when I’ve met guys in person & it didn’t work out, there’s just something about them that doesn’t live up to my expectations (even though they look like their pics). I’m unsure if my dating logic is unrealistic, dating apps are the only way for me to meet people & don’t understand how I can be this old & haven’t been in love yet.

The last thing I’ll add is my lack of sex drive, masturbation doesn’t do anything for me & I haven’t had sex since I saw that person back in my early twenties. However, it’s known that some women need to be in a healthy relationship in order to have that *sexual desire*.