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I realize asking strangers online will not solve my very real dilemma, but I thought I would anyway just to see what you all say.

Ultimately the choice is mine and only mine.

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I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he is indecisive on having children. Because of a previous marriage he is now traumatized to get married and have kids again. We love each other but I know I want marriage and kids.

Since I recently broke up with him, we still talk everyday and he told me he's thinking about kids more than he ever has before and how he doesn't want to lose me...

Wellll... to get over him quicker and distract myself because I'm so distraught over this breakup, I started talking to a man I briefly talked to before I got serious with my boyfriend. This man wants marriage, kids the whole shebang. We get along pretty well and I do like him.

The problem? Should I hold off with this new man until I'm absolutely sure my boyfriend has made up his mind about kids or should I just accept he's indecisive and start this new relationship with someone who actually wants what I want?

And no, no matter how many of you advise I take a break from dating altogether, I won't do that.

#relationshipadvice

#breakup

Unless it's regarding whether you want kids and marriage (I can't compromise that; to me that's an all or nothing), I hate extremes.

If you're a super religious fanatic trying to convert others, I find that wrong. It would be the same if I were to continue mocking religion and god nonstoppable and trying to convert you. How would you like that?

Meanwhile I'm not a jealous woman and you won't find me yelling at you nor snooping on your phone (no trust means no relationship to me), the other extreme would be allowing you to be friends with all your ex gfs and spending time with them. Unless you have a child with her, I find no reason nor point in keeping your past life active. The past reminds in the past.

The fanatics that say there is never ever a reason to end a life, not even if a child gets raped and she's forced to carry the pedophile's baby. I think there should be a couple exceptions made. How can carrying your rapist's child ever be a blessing? I think these 3 cases sound like exceptions:
- Legitimate rape cases
- The baby will have severe deformities and die soon
- Childbirth will result in immediate death for the mother

The way how BLM have become in comparing to what Martin Luther King would've wanted. It's nice to have fair opportunities for everyone but there are always a couple folks that overdo things. Same thing with radical feminism and lately a couple LGBT fanatics that try to convince that not only it's being gay normal but it's the new norm and try to shove their beliefs down your throat.