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Asked this woman out at my gym, she said no because she has a boyfriend. We stayed gym buddies since.

Then all of a sudden a couple months later she said she was breaking up with her boyfriend and wanted to take me up on my offer. After the breakup up though things took a turn. She admitted she has interest in me, likes me, but needs time. Since then things have been hit or miss. She doesn’t really text or respond (I barely text her now), no social media interactions on my stuff but does on other people’s.

Yet when I see her in person (usually at her work, she works at that gym) she’s happy to see me, could talk to me all day and does text fit a bit after I leave but then goes silent again. She says she’s getting me a Christmas present and wants to exchange on Christmas Eve after work.

I get she probably needs time, her ex cheated on her and from what I can tell was manipulative (she hasn’t really opened up about it to me). But I guess by mind is split. Part of me is saying her actions speak louder than words (not communicating, she does say she’s horrible at texting). The other part says she just broke up with her ex and is probably trying to work through that and keep me and the situation separate.

What are your opinions?

So I recently found out a girl that I've been talking to, and who has been uncomfortably flirty with me, had a boyfriend. She told me herself that she was trying to keep him a secret, but I ended up finding the guy on Instagram and informing him of this along with the text messages we had exchanged as proof. On top of keeping it a "secret", she said she missed me/wanted to hear my voice again/suggested that I "needed her" so I wouldn't be so stressed out etc etc and I shared all of this with him. I also stopped talking to the girl because, as I said, she was being flirty and she was definitely not my type and knowing she was this shitty of a person was enough to not even want to be platonic friends with her.