So I recently found out a girl that I've been talking to, and who has been uncomfortably flirty with me, had a boyfriend. She told me herself that she was trying to keep him a secret, but I ended up finding the guy on Instagram and informing him of this along with the text messages we had exchanged as proof. On top of keeping it a "secret", she said she missed me/wanted to hear my voice again/suggested that I "needed her" so I wouldn't be so stressed out etc etc and I shared all of this with him. I also stopped talking to the girl because, as I said, she was being flirty and she was definitely not my type and knowing she was this shitty of a person was enough to not even want to be platonic friends with her.
AITA for telling her man that she was emotionally cheating on him?
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to some people they'll look at you as an asshole who should mind his own business.
to me, you're a loyal friend who doesn't screw over his fellow men even a stranger thus you are worthy of someone watching your back for you.
I didn't even know this guy at all. I just know that there's a large proabability that he could do better and deserves better. I'm a bit tired of women thinking they can get away with this. To me, this was about preventing emotional abuse from happening any more than it already did without me knowing. Also, chances are that if she was this way with me she was this way with other guys too.
Isn’t AITA meant for Reddit?
maybe, but reddit sucks and I haven't bothered with it in years