How can you tell if a guy friend is being friendly or is trying to fuck?

Puppystarfish23

I feel like if I explain this situation the Americans are gonna kick off because they don't really understand English peoples banter and lad culture/drinking culture.

So basically I've started going out more with a couple work friends it's usually always me and my best friend and two other lads.

My best friend is the only single one in the situation they. The rest of us are all in long term relationships.

I'll usually look for a weekend when my boyfriend is working nights so he doesn't miss spending time with me as much. He's okay with me going out and having friends as he's not really one for going out out.

We always make sure we have a few boys with us for safety.

It's just one guy who we hang with I can't tell what his intentions are. We do have pretty good banter between the two of us and we do jokey flirt sometimes but sometimes it's gone to fair and gotten awkward.

For example once we were talking about me going away on holiday and he asked if get freckles I said not on my face usually on my back but it's not as if I can show you that and he replied "maybe one day you never know" .

Then we've been out and he has nothing but nice things to say about me when I'm usually making fun out of him. He's always listening to me and my issues and is a really good friend really but he's also kinda handies.

He was trying to get me to play pool with him and I didn't know how to play he kept touching me trying to show me and getting really close behind me and touching my lower back. I made a joke about him being a prev but he quickly shut it down.

Afterwards he wouldn't stop touching my lower back whenever we went somewhere together as if I was his girlfriend or something I moved his hands away from me put I felt a little mean doing that.

Afterwards we were joking about the sound my leather trousers were make when you slap my legs of course he went to slapping my arse and then chasing everyone else down the street trying to slap there arses.

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I hate asking other people around me because I'm constantly paranoid about men and people tense me for it
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He is a massive flirt too. He let my best friend sit on his lap and when I told him off for slapping my arse and said I'd kick him in the balls if he did it again he said "oh right miss low cut top" meaning he's obviously looked a couple times and a few people thought he was my boyfriend in the bar we were in as he kept putting his hand on my lower back
How can you tell if a guy friend is being friendly or is trying to fuck?
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