Search Results: self esteem
Is there a way to escape from toxic shame? or does it never get better?
Toxic shame is the feeling of worthlessness and self-loathing, which comes with the feeling of embarrassment. It usually starts from moments in your childhood. For example, your parents constantly told you that you...
Why do many VERY tall men (190cm+) still like to date short women?
I've noticed this myself. I am short, about 157cm tall and despite living in a country with rather tall people, many guys especially the very tall ones opt to date short women like me. Even I experienced suitors that were...
How do I get guys to stop asking for my number and asking me out?
Every day I get multiple guy asking me out or asking my number and talking to me. My male coworkers do my job for me, buy me food, and always try to talk to me when we are both supposed to be working. Customers ask me out...
Why do I never get approached?
I’m 18. Haven’t gone out a lot and if I do it’s mostly bars and never clubs. I would say I’m attractive but I have confidence and self-esteem issues as well as being shy so that could be a factor, but at the same time I...
How do I deal with body dysmorphia?
I’m a guy in my mid twenties, and I have really bad self esteem. No matter how many girls tell me I’m “hot” or what not, I just think I’m ugly. I work at least once every day for 3-4 hours at minimum. And still, I hate my...
How do I prepare myself for an impending breakup?
In our long distance relationship of 6 months we fight a lot. And during most of the fights he tells me that he would leave me, cut all contacts and that I'm a waste of time. But I'm emotionally too attached, I can't end...
Does my coworker have feelings towards me?
I’ve been working in a retail store part time for a year. I’ve notice some “out of the norm” behaviors from a coworker of mine for several months, but I’m still really confused. From the time I met her, she asked me a lot...
For girls, how would you cope? For guys, what would you think would be reasonable? Would you, guys, feel overwhelmed?
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year (In less than a month will be our anniversary) and I can only remember about 11 complimments. 2 of them were when we weren't together. 3 of them have been about my...
Why do my “friends harshly judge me” when their life’s are falling apart?
I’ve got a guy who has never been to college doesn’t work has self esteem issues and is dating a girl he admits he is very unhappy with and is losing attraction to judge me saying I am not mature enough or have enough...
How can I learn to smile again feels like I've lost my smile?
I want to smile cause I've been told before I look better with a smile a frown and meh faces doesn't suit me. I appreciate those complements so much I do. It's just my depression and my self esteem problems and blah blah...
Should I stay out my friends romantic life?
I have this friend called Anna at work she's only 19 but she's such a lovely girl and has heart of gold. She's the type of person who would do anything for anyone. She's one of the kindest people I've met. Whilst the guy...
Does pain help you grow if you resist it and fight it?
My cousin worked 14 hour days and became a successful business owner and her neighbour cut herself in her teenage years because of low self esteem and verbally abusive parents and she would cry during her first training...
How to react to a guy calling himself ugly & fat?
A guy friend of mine randomly makes comments that he is fat or ugly. I’ve asked why he feels that way. He insists he’s joking but it doesn’t feel like it. If I respond that he’s not or give him a random compliment, he...
Do he or even they like me?
I am in this dance class for an event. We rehearse every week, one is optional but has been added by us to get more ready. And I've noticed two guys that are cute and funny. At least accept the fact that I can derail...
If i’m as “beautiful” as i’m told, why do guys never pursue me romantically? am I not that attractive?
i’ve had plenty of guys want to sleep with me and they’re always “so” surprised (that’s men’s words for when they’re trying to get in your pants) when i tell them i’ve never been in a real relationship. it’s always “how...
Why does my boyfriend keep telling people we are engaged when we are not?
My boyfriend and I have been together for several years now. Unfortunately, he had cheated (not physically) on me numerous times. On the day I had enough and was going to leave him, he brought a cheap ring (as that's...
Should I tell her I saw escorts/prostitdues in the past?
I'm in the talking stages with this girl. I'm not entirely sure if it headed somewhere but it does seem like it. This girl is just simply amazing. I haven't asked her out yet because she had some things she was going...
Guys say I’m angry …. Why can’t they love me through it?
I understand that I am not perfect and I may fall short sometimes. I am depressed and I do have super low self esteem. I’ve been told that by a guy.. I don’t want anyone to fix me or tolerate whatever… but sometimes...
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