Search Results: they do not reply back

When I saw him my heart skipped a beat, but trying to play it cool I approached the relationship with only friendship in mind. He ended up being kind and funny. He would stare at me from across the room, leave his group of friends just to talk with me and the TEASING? Well time goes by and I don't see him at my shift. I decided to try and look for his IG. When I clicked on his profile I saw a whole highlight dedicated to his GIRLFRIEND. I was so shocked. I tried my best to get over my feelings. But after a week I had to get some answers, so I texted him on Snap. I told him how I thought my feelings were mutual but I'm aware of his girlfriend, I made sure to mention that I thought she was pretty and how I think they should stay together. He left me on "seen". Even worse? He didn't add me back as a friend !

So a few weeks pass and I see him in the CITY with his GIRLFRIEND and he nods his head to my sister and I (my sister knows nothing about this). I just stood there and said "hi". Next day I see him at WORK? We had a few shallow interactions, but I guess I'm just too real to ignore the fat elephant in the room so I was pissed and ended up flirting with his friend in front of him. After this he wouldn't look at me at all lol. The next shift I saw him, I ended up knocking over his coffee. I wanted the ground to swallow me whole. I decided that I would re-make the coffee and when I gave it to him he smiled and said "thanks I appreciate that". I didn't even reply I just wheezed and left. When the day was over I was walking home with my sis and he drove past with his friends, he started pulling faces. And we just stared at each other. It felt nice, but at the back of my mind I was thinking of his girlfriend. Recently it was his bday, I say happy birthday on Snap again. He replies with "thanks that means a lot" and I reply with the "ok" hand emoji. He STILL didn't add me back. Why won't he add me back on Snapchat?

Advice is appreciated!

I’ve been dating a guy a few months, seeing each other every 2nd day, and be called me daily. We hung out and had a great time and I know he was very into me.

he’s due to go away to another country tomorrow for a month with work. I last saw him 4 days ago, we hung out, he told me he will miss me and we spoke about our future etc.

Here’s where I think the problem is. I left my phone at his, when I went to collect it everything was fine. He messaged me later that night, saying he wishes I was beside him and that he can’t wait to see me the next night. Anyways, when I got my phone back, I noticed that I had received messages from guys I was friends with telling me I looked good etc. I had uploaded a new profile pic, and they had pmd me. Even though my phone was locked, the messages pop up briefly.

he didn’t message the day after, and in 4 days he has sent me 1 message (usually he would call and text daily). I sent him a couple of messages asking was everything ok as he was quite (read it but didn’t reply) sent him a follow up one asking if we were still going out that night (silence). I was wanting to meet up with him and find out did he see the messages from the guys who pmd me and reassure him.

I was with my friend yesterday, and was showing her the messages. She unfollowed him and unfriended him on everything saying he’s a user etc. I’m so pissed off with her. I then sent him a friend and follow request which he didn’t accept, and sent him a further message (as we are no longer friends, I can’t see if he read them).

I really really like and respect this guy, and I only have eyes for him. I’ve sent him 4 messages in total which he didn’t respond to (the last one wishing him a good trip and if we could speak). The whole thing is a misunderstanding

Might I add, he hasn’t blocked me off anything when I sent those messages.

the questing is, what will I do? And will be back in touch? What do I do to make it right again?

When we first got together there was a tie over between her and me (I never knew about this until after)

We were on a night out and we walked past her and he couldn’t stop laughing in her face almost and I said why? He said running joke.

Then the night after she messaged his friend in a rage saying how dare he did he have fun. My ex replied yeah I did. (Never knew this for months)

But him and his friends had a group chat with her name - it was in a joking way and didn’t talk about her just general conversation.

They all joked she was the only “thick” for him. And spoke about her when it came up like saying aww she would never etc. it was never in a way that was like she’s so hot etc. she’s stunning.

She uploaded a picture of her boobs with a smiley face drawn on it and it was sent to a chat and they just all laughed never said so amazing etc. they also did this with anyone else too.

But when we split he attempted to go back to everyone before me including her and his friends said she’s dumb enough to let you fuck her over again

We’re his friends and him obsessed or did I just see it that way?

He refused fo talk good about me with them. Made it out like I had nothing good etc cos he was so jealous of me. He hated I could get someone else instantly and he struggled massively. This girl was a one off then so was I. Before her he hasn’t managed to get sex for 6 months and desperately had to get her. He knew fine well I lowered what I’d go for to give him a chance.