So a few weeks ago I posted about my Online Affair, and today is my birthday and she wrote me an email.
What she wrote me:
Hi, I know you're angry with me, and I understand, you have a right to be. I didn't send this to talk about anything that's happened. I just wanted to say Happy Birthday, and I hope you enjoyed that L you took last night. (chargers and niners game we had a bet on it when we were talking).
I'm okay, I passed my exam, and I'm okay. I've been taking this time to really focus on myself, and it's been good.
I got the flowers, even though you sent them on a Thursday when I was off the rest of the week. That was difficult trying to explain to everyone who they're from. But I thank you for them.
I can't open up this door again right now, just know you're on my mind. Hope you are well.
E
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So how should I reply to this? Should I even reply?
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Note: we went into no contact on 10/20 we ended, I wrote her a email and sent her flowers (drunk) on 10/21 and haven’t talked to her since then. She sent this and yesterday was my birthday.
so she told me her marriage is on the rocks, she loves me and I love her too, She told her husband this was his last chance and she’s setting herself up so she can leave at anytime financially. Promised me she’d come back to me when it ends.
Also I don’t need to hear about being a homewrecker or anything like that, I know it’s not traditional nor am I a bad person nor is she.
