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I’m currently living with my parents trying to bag up $60,000 right now I’m sitting at $49,000. The original plan was to put a down payment on a house when I save up 60,000.

However, my girlfriend just bought her home and wants me to come live with her and pay little. Problem is I don’t agree with how she lives, but I have no say since it’s her house.

The condo is super small and she too much stuff. It’s to a point where the spare bedroom is off limits. She always has people staying over with their pets and kids. Everyone sleeps in the living room on the floor. Sometimes she even sleeps on the floor and lets her guests stay in her bed. Lots of her friends have keys to her house. I don't know if I can live that life with her.

With all that being said should I move in with her or just get my own my place?

Consider an average boy (Mr Average) born somewhere between 1990 and 2005.

May have a post-high school degree (college or even bachelors degree).

Does not have a car or bicycle.

Works full time. Makes somewhere between above minimum wage to close to average.

Money expends completely towards housing and food.

And since the fun stuff aren't free (e. g. jetski, firing range, trampolines, rock climbing or aquaparks), he resorts to playing video games (e. g. fortnite, minecraft, age of empires, dead by daylight) and mas tur bating to po rn and watching disney+/netflix. Like literally every day.

May or may not smoke weed/vape.

Never went to vacation outside the country. He's too broke for anything!

May speak 2 languages. May be of another origin (e. g. from Europe/Asia/America)

Since food prices went up, he resorts to cooking at home in bulk simple dishes, so that he eats the same meal over the course of 2-3 days.

Stays inside mostly because he's too broke to afford the fun activities outside.

Tends to skip barber appointments sometimes (or just lets his hair grow long but might limit grooming it properly).

Doesn't go to parties because he can't really bring anything nor afford meetup fee's.

Doesn't bother going to nightclubs.

Doesn't go to the gym. He can't afford it.

So how is Mr Average today supposed to get girls and stop being a loser? Work 2 jobs? Hardly possible.