Search Results: getting respect at work

How can I stop assuming the worst about women when I try dating?

I was one those “nice guys” growing who always give the woman the benefit of the doubt and hoped for the best. 4 out of 5 times I had to find out the hard way that the ugly truth was the truth whenever I had a doubt. My...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why should a guy ask a young woman's hand in marriage if women initiate divorce 80+% of the time, especially in western countries?

As a kid and into adult hood, I have an old school mentality of getting married. I'm not a guy who wants to play around. But today, I see more girls getting divorced. Using dating apps I see women in their 20s or 30s or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s the most painful experience you’ve been through and what did it teach you?

Breaking my bone - was the most painful experience I’ve been through physically. I had my shinbone broken in two places, one of them - X-Ray didn’t see and they only fixed one place into a cast, The first two days I was...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Dating

Am I getting uglier as I age?

I'm 24 and people don't call me handsome anymore. Girls don't look at me anymore the way they did and I get no attention. I used to be the shy guy who was always approached by them, but now I'm outgoing and girls reject...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why can’t women be direct and honest instead of flaking and ghosting?

If a woman no longer interested in you whether romantically or sexually she could just text him saying something like “This is where I draw the line, you must continue your life without me, good luck with everything” even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would a guy who is not interested in be nervous around you? If so, why?

About 8 months ago, I felt like a guy a work with was flirting. This went on for about 4 months. I was getting frustrated that he hadn’t ask me out, so I made the move. He was hesitant, but said no. He didn’t want to date...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I make friends with this girl at work?

I've known this girl at work for years. She's very quiet, funny and sweet but kept to herself. She's a rich girl but extremely hard working. She loves horses and rides them a lot. she always had her hair, nails, lashes...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Why is he choosing toxic but comfort over a deeper connection?

Me and this guy met 2 years ago. Both in toxic relationships where we werent getting our needs met. Feelings grew between us, he left his relationship thinking I would leave mine bc we were having issues. I said no I have...

roseyynh

Xper 4 Age: 28

Does he really have a lot going on or has he just lost interest?

So I started seeing this guy around 6 months ago. Things started off really good but then I felt him getting a kind of distant. I brought it up and he said he just really had a lot going on. At first I thought he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I let my friend know im crushing on him or just ignore it to save the friendship?

I feel like I'm come off really bad and shallow I'm this but here goes. I made friends with this guy about a year ago. We instantly connected as friends and I found him so funny and kind. He'd always put himself down for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What should I do?

Lately, I've been feeling overwhelmed by the lack of respect I've been receiving from my family. Just last week, my 45-year-old cousin, who I live with and doesn't work, got into an argument with me. He has been...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you deal with being on the other side of unrequited love?

I met this guy whilst on a training course with my work. He was first to approach me and I was very shy and nervous on the course but him and another guy really bought me out of my shell and supported me a lot. I moved...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hobbies & Leisure

Have you ever finally gotten something right after countless trial/error and have a hard time forgiving yourself for all the time/money you wasted?

I started a side business a year ago and I wasted a lot of time and money via trial and error last year. However it’s now really taking off. Very exciting and getting more and more profitable every month. I gave myself...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Boyfriend's ulcerative colitis is making him mean to me, anyone else have experience with UC?

My boyfriend has ulcerative colitis and he has been having a flare-up for the last three weeks. I've noticed that when he is ill (whether it's a cold or his UC acting up) he tends to be in his own world, only caring about...

Dream-er679

Xper 5 Age: 33

Confused on this guy’s behavior (I barely know him)?

rarely talks to me and seems pretty chill around me for the most part. That is until he asks me a question about our work. I look him in the eye when he asks me questions (out of respect), but he ends up getting all weird...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Confused on this guy’s behavior?

In one of my classes, I am seat mates with a guy. He rarely talks to me and seems pretty chill around me for the most part. That is until he asks me a question about our work. I look him in the eye when he asks me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I lost my dignity chasing after her?

So I've been getting really hot and cold treatment from this woman for years, yet I kept going back to her one way or the other. She takes me to the moon in how special she treats me, then suddenly she barely responds to...

Anonymous

(30-35)