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So I don't know if it’s b/c I use the apps kind of “casually”, as in every other day/every 2 days etc. It’s kind of rare for me to message a guy daily, unless it’s at the point where we’ve met up & are msging on a different platform/texting etc. But I’m pretty big on asking questions for obv reasons; if 2 msgs have gone by and I’ve asked questions while the guy is only talking about himself/just answering me, I’ll stop replying. I’m not quick to unmatch, unless it’s known we’re not a good match after meeting or they say something gross etc. It shows a lack of interest or the guy potentially being self absorbed…am I too hasty? Is it just how a good chunk of guys are on the apps? Or should I blame myself?

I have been on dating sites before, and each time the vibe is good, we get into to asking questions about each other, messaging back quickly and everything is good. But as soon as I disclose that I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship the vibe gets thrown off and they start messaging back slower or not messaging back at all. And before anyone says “why do you tell them you’re a virgin” or “why are you telling them you’ve never been in a relationship, I tell them because they ask and I’m not ashamed of either one. But I am starting to realize its becoming a problem because I haven’t been able to get into a relationship, I’m almost 22 and have never been in a relationship before, I can’t relate to people around me that are and it’s quite exhausting not to mention embarrassing.

My question is: Are men who are experienced in dating and sexually, scared to be with a women that has never been in a relationship and still is a virgin?