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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
Guys, Why is it we can be tough with most aspects of our lives but many of us act so weak with women?
I believe it’s because of the following: We had a confusing / contradictory upbringing. Many of us were taught old school “chivalry” with women only to have women exploit that in modern dating. Public education and...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I get over my fear of dating?
I'm 24, f & never had a boyfriend/ went on a date with a guy. I grew up overweight and got bodyshamed since the age of 10/11. My self confidence is still very low bc of that. When I was 19, I lost a lot of weight &...
Lxcylxcy
Xper 4 Age: 25 I’m not exactly sure what to do anymore, will I remain alone for the rest of my life?
Hi, I’m 23 turning 24 this year. I’ve never had a boyfriend, never been approached, never been on a date. Everyone says dating is easy for women, but it seems like I’m one that’s left out of that. I sucks watching...
Anonymous
(18-24) Befriended hot girl, what do I do now?
So I befriended a beautiful woman…unintentionally. I’m in charge of supply ordering and stocking at my job and so happen to stock her department. Many times, she has been alone when I get there, which lead us to talking...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?
At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...
Girls, do you want men to approach you?
So I've seen some videos on social media of women fearfully lamenting that men don't approach them, that men these days don't approach women enough, and that feminism has scared them off and ruined dating. Now, this...
Adam_INTJ
Xper 7 Age: 26 Why do I get less attention from men now that I got fit or “hotter”?
I was always a chubby girl. Been overweight my whole life. I have never once been at a healthy weight. I lost weight before but I gained it all back. Some of my family said good I don’t need to lose weight in the first...
Anonymous
(25-29) What the F*ck is “Rizzing”?
Aaaaaaaaaaand ladies and gentlemen, we have a nother reason why social media is garbage that is bad for you. It’s called “rizzing.” And what the fuck exactly is “rizzing”? “Rizzing” is a stupid-sounding modern day...
What is your dating bottom line and has it changed or ever changed in the past?
I remember I used to get hit on or spontaneously and repeatedly approached by certain people at jobs, and I would regard all males with blatant and blanket suspicion with the theory they could be abusive, until I saw...
If you could give the opposite sex one super power to better understand your side of the fence, what would it be?
Personally I would give women the ability to automatically know if a guy is decent or a legitimate threat to them or not. Mind you this is not contingent on anything else (guys looks, age, etc.). It also doesn’t mean the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do people think hot women dont get approached?
Im sure they get hit on all the time. Its probably going to be by some overly confident asshole Chad that's going to leave her for the next hot thing that comes around, but they do get approached. Im not going to bother...
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Guru Age: 37 How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) What if you were cycling into office, getting through the barrier and car beeped at you?
You look around and he's waving his arms Would you react? This is what happened to me recently. I went to put my bike down to approach the driver when it turned out to be a colleague messing. But.. Then...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why do woman give up on potential mate if he is kinda shy?
So I’ve had many of them obviously I’m still a virgin obviously can’t even be sure they were ever interested in the first place or just in my head. Guys have good reason enough not to approach it’s not even a conversation...
Anonymous
(25-29) Precisely what are these guys fishing for? (When does a guy give up?)?
A former friend (M55) was at a bar, fishing for a gal 1/2 his age: Bc he TRULY BELIEVES he's "all that and a bag of chips" he approaches her. She asks "Where are you from? Really? OMG! SOO random! Me too... But that's a...
How can a quiet girl get a serious relationship, a boyfriend?
I always approach the guys I like but I’m always rejected. I don’t get called shy but quiet. I do chat but not nonstop telling a million stories per second. I guess if you don’t speak like that , you are automatically...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 I've been told I'm pretty but why do men never look at me?
I've been told I'm pretty, mostly by friends and older people from my parents friend cycle, but I guess we can't count that. I don't feel invisible only when it comes to men, I kinda go unnoticed by everyone, but that's...
Anonymous
(18-24) How did I end up in this situation?
I had been seeing Woman A casually for almost two years. We acted like a couple—traveled together, went to concerts and weddings, met each other’s family and friends—and I usually paid for everything. But she never wanted...
Anonymous
(30-35) Could he be interested?
I met a guy, he approached me (commented on the fact that we both had to step outside to vape), and we chatted on and off through the night whenever we were outside at the same time. Conversation was easy and flowed...
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Xper 1 Age: 42 Girls, what do you think is the number 1 reason guys don’t approach you?
And it’s not being shy , even though shy is up there , but the number 1 reason a guy won’t approach you? I will give the answer after a bunch of replies. Unless one of ya gets it.
