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Should I get a new belly button piercing?
*disclaimer: If you’re not into belly button piercing, it’s cool, buttt I’m not asking for your opinion if you like/dislike it lol. I am just curious about getting a new piercing. Once upon a time, bobalife got a...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Guys, do you ever get intimidated by girls who dress really well?
Real life speaking, I feel like they love it on me. But other times I feel like they could be intimidated or nervous lol. I rarely go outside my house with no make-up and super causal. I also noticed the small times I...
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my boyfriend lying about this ‘random girl’ or just being naive?
My boyfriend says a “weird girl” he has never met before near our apartment asked to use his phone. He helped her make two calls and even walked with her towards another building before stopping because she got “rude”....
LatinaXv7
Xper 1 Age: 38 
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(30-35) Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Was it inappropriate for another man to help put my shoes on when my husband ignored me?
Me and husband recently went to a friends wedding and once we got to party my feet started to hurt so I took my heels off to go on the dance floor and party. The whole time my husband just sat at the table chatting with...
Anonymous
(25-29) Seeing A Stranger While Both Of You Happen To Fancy The Other. Feel Free To Share Your Experience?
Today, I stopped by a convenience store just to grab a drink. I noticed the guy in front of me right away he was genuinely stunning. What I didn’t expect was that he felt the same way. When another cashier opened...
Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?
Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Moms, how did your body and self-image change after giving birth?
Im 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby. One part of me is really excited and the other is extremely nervous and scared. I know the realities of birth and I've heard all the horror stories. I keep thinking "I can't...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 What’s something about yourself that quietly makes you feel ‘not enough’ and why does it still hold that much power over you?
Everyone carries something they’re not fully comfortable with, sometimes visible, sometimes only they notice. It could be your appearance, the way you speak, your personality, your past, or even where you are in life....
Anonymous
(30-35) What does it mean when you get compliments that you look like a “doll”?
I noticed it has been repetitive by both men and women. But I don’t fully grasp what does that mean when someone say I looked like a doll…
bobalife
Guru Age: 35 Could MTV-style spring break shows ever come back in the streaming era?
Why isn't there a show like MTV Spring Break or BET Spring Bling anymore nowadays? I was looking at past old videos of MTV Spring Break/The Grind from the late 90s and early 2000s where you had a young, prime Halle Berry...
Is it ever acceptable to cuss at fast food workers over long waits?
I work at mcdonald's. The drive through was backed up, and there were a lot of people in the restaurant waiting for orders. I noticed a couple had been waiting at a table for a while. I walked up to them, and said "mind...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Does my coworker friend like me or are we just really close?
I am trying to be able to tell if my coworker (friend) has a crush on me of if we are just connected because we are close. I know that I should just ask him but that is not going to happen. Anyways I feel like he has been...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I feel crazy in relationships?
I was obsessed with my boyfriend. I stalked his location all day long, angering myself if i noticed he left his house so i’d question him where he was and who he was with. I would cry and rage when we interacted with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why don’t more women value security?
I actually have come across a woman who seems very selective and seems to value and see me as a good option based on our conversations. Not to get too ahead of myself here, but we’ve been talking for a little over a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can someone help you see your self?
Do you believe that people can be mirrors? I was in a deep depression for two years. During that time, I talked to a man who made me feel emotionally safe. He made it seem like he could love me with all my flaws and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I feel no wants or desires even though my life is going well?
I am a 25-year-old woman, and I’ve struggled with my emotions for most of my life. One thing I always promised myself was that I would become independent from my family. Nothing was ever handed to me because my family has...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does being thinner attract fewer but ‘higher quality’ men?
At my heaviest as a woman I’ve been 145lbs and my lowest has been 90lbs I am 5’1 so pretty short. I personally thought my lowest weight was a perfect weight for my body. And I began to notice changes with how people...
Anonymous
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