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Search Results: red flags
Is this my intuition warning me about him, or just my anxiety and insecurity?
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. He treats me really nicely, he’s sweet, consistent, and we have fun together when we hang out. On paper, things seem good, but something has been feeling off for me and I...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
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Xper 1 Age: 13 If a man openly flirts and checks out women, is it a red flag?
Ok it’s a bit more complicated than that.., so my friend has been seeing this guy who is 36 (divorced two years ago) for the last 1.5 year. He was actually with his ex wife for 10 years and married for 7 months after he...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
What early dating red flags are instant deal breakers for you?
When dating someone at the beginning what are your red flags? Are any of them a definite deal breaker immediately?
mompatrol416
Xper 3 Age: 33 If a guy follows lots of girls on social media, is that a red flag?
This is on Facebook, Instagram, snap, and TikTok. Is this considered keeping options open, roster dating, or the player persona?
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What’s a subtle red flag in someone that life has taught you to notice?
Watch how nasty someone can be to people they dont like. they may end up disliking you
robocop666
Guru Age: 38 
Foxylady24
Xper 4 Age: 24 Is it a red flag he ignored me for a month, then came back wanting money and sex?
He said he was trying to let his foot heal up from injury so he ignored me but have been active on social media. We been talking for 3 months
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this a red flag?
leave me on read for like 8hours, when I’m not around him but go on his phone when I’m around him, but then feel some type of way if I don’t initiate contact, or be the one to call him first? that’s exactly why I don’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) Are relationship standards actually attractive or a red flag?
There’s the extreme of superficial and unrealistic standards as well as double standards having standards for someone else they don’t hold themselves to. At the same time when someone has real standards if she then...
Boyfriend hasn’t replied to my heart emoji for hours—red flag or nothing?
I sent my boyfriend a big red heart via text at 4p and it's 9pm and he still hadn't responded. He usually gets off work at 7p so it's not like he's busy.
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a red flag if your partner uses dating apps just for attention?
Would you be upset and concerned , or just let it go because they told you
What subtle green flags show someone is a keeper, and which red flags are real dealbreakers?
Hey everyone. I'm a 19-year-old guy. I grew up in a house full of brothers, so I feel like I'm learning about women from scratch. I've been in a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend (18F) for about a year....
devonsix6
Xper 1 Age: 20 Is it a red flag if he’s never free on Saturday nights, or am I overthinking?
So, as my date didn’t confirm our 4th date last Sunday, because he forgot that he told me he would confirm it and assumed we already had it confirmed, I went traveling. He assumed we were meeting on Sunday, then asked me...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Is it a red flag?
yesterday, i met a guy on a dating app. I wanted to talk over the phone. But he didn't. He wanted to video call me the next day afternoon. I woke up at 11:30a, and never received a text from him for an afternoon call....
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this normal behavior for knowing each other for 3 months?
Is he using me for sex or is he just physically into me? Not going to lie we had sex one time and I didn't even get to finish. After that I guess he enjoyed it. We text everyday but he is always inconsistent this is since...
Anonymous
(25-29) 