Search Results: scared to be honest

Would you be honest about your childhood trauma with your significant other and would you want them to be honest with you?

I have a lot of unresolved trauma from my childhood sexual abuse. It doesn’t affect me much but it does affect me where i am not as sexually comfortable, i am a bit scared of men but I am working on that as I have male...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend is still not over his ex?

I got into a relationship with him recently, and honestly, it's going great, and I feel super loved, but I feel like he's not over his ex. A friend of mine told me that he saw him texting his ex, and I was told not to...

naryonette

Xper 1 Age: 18

Other

Why do people look very uncomfortable around me?

I’m talking very very uncomfortable. I’d say 80% look very uncomfortable around me. Men and women. Then the remaining 20% just seem chilled and happy. I’m not an awkward person apart from I feel very uncomfortable making...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Can I ask a girl if she likes me?

Hi, I was wondering how can I ask a girl if she likes me? I want to tell her that simple question because I'm just being honest and I don't know a different way to ask that and I really like this girl. I know that she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boss to scared to say it?

I want to improve at work and asked for feedback. my boss said he has thought about it and has nothing critical to say and im performing well. We are fairly close (37 M, 32F) and I've always said i just want us to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told this girl that I'm talking to others and her response was confusing?

I (22F) have been seeing this girl (21F) for around a month and a half. She was very busy due to college finals for the last few weeks. I asked her out after they were over, and she said that this sounds nice but she has...

elisweee

Xper 1 Age: 24

Society & Politics

Would the world be a safer place if there were no men?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Eb_o8hQNUFI IVG allows a woman to turn her skin cells into an artificial sperm and inject it into another woman. So two women can have a kid with each other. And Preimplantation genetic...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell a romantic partner something I feel guilty about?

I did something a few years ago that he does not morally agree with and I have kept this from him out of fear. I want to be honest and eventually confess but I’m scared of what might happen if I do so. I don’t know if I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are these signs he likes me?

Few points. He invited me to a party yesterday. We met a little earlier and went there together. He told me I look good on the way there, then I got a little shy and complimented him back He bought me two beers...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I bad a girlfriend if I don’t like my boyfriend’s friends?

i trust them and all but the thing is he has this one girl bestfriend that he is SUPER CLOSE with and my boyfriend is really understanding and caring towards me and will do anything for me (i do the same too) but i’m just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you reassure someone who has to undergo surgery?

Tomorrow my wife will hospitalized for surgery - nothing extreme, a simple removal of a couple of stomach cysts (which gave us a cancer scare...). To be honest she's perfectly cool about it and has no anxiety, I'm the one...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

I fall in love and I am so happy to change my situation for comments?

When we met first time as friends, I had interest (but I was wrong) on other person and she finished a very bad relationship with her ex boyfriend. We had so intense affection each other and we solved olur problems so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

At what age did you stop being lying?

My parents were very strict about my studies and since I was a naughty child, while I was A student I had some Bs too. That I was hiding and lying about. My parents never came to school so never found out, in 9th Grade I...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

How could I work on how I feel regarding his dead ex girlfriend?

She is dead for more than 6 years now. He had other relationships after but more like playing around and some serious. She and him were together when they were teenagers. She died out of car crash in front of him. Now it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys/men is this is true?

LADIES, HERE ARE THE FACTS YOU HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN. 1. Every male ( including a little boy) has the instinct to detect disrespect and dishonor from your words and actions towards them. 2. Men feed on honor and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What does them being happy from a goodbye mean?

I told someone i moved on from them & others in a nice manner & wished them the best in life and they said “this is understandable this made me happy thanks for being honest”. I was scared it would make them be mad...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a man want to kiss me and cuddle with me in bed but when I jokingly said im like your woman he said no, no?

This guy is always talking about wanting to kiss me or when i was in his bed with him he hold my arm with his hand and later when we woke up he said I wanted you to cuddle with me but you didn't or when sitting on couch...

Anonymous

(25-29)