Why would a man want to kiss me and cuddle with me in bed but when I jokingly said im like your woman he said no, no?

This guy is always talking about wanting to kiss me or when i was in his bed with him he hold my arm with his hand and later when we woke up he said I wanted you to cuddle with me but you didn't or when sitting on couch with him he always sit very close to me and yesterday on phone call with him i said im almost like your woman (i also cook for him always) he was like no no and then was talking about wanting to kiss me again then said but you are scared im very honest i don't want to kiss him or do anything that intimate like kissing or sex how can i tell him that? for weeks he is talking about wanting to kiss me we aren't even in relationship or anything

Why would a man want to kiss me and cuddle with me in bed but when I jokingly said im like your woman he said no, no?
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