I purposefully sleep at other men's houses after dates just so I'm not lectured by my mum?

I purposefully sleep at other men's houses after dates just to be away from my mum.

Before I leave she will ask an abundance of questions which I choose not to answer because each time I tell her I've met them on tinder It is world war 3 and she just gets mad and says I'm looking for trouble why can't I meet people at Uni or work, calls me a desperate. People don't ask people out in real life anymore or really get to know people at either places let alone other social sports clubs etc.

I dread going home post date because I know I'm just going to get lectured and even when I'm out she will send me messages telling me to have self respect and that this person is just like my ex boyfriend (who she wasn't too fond of in the end). All my dad says is just don't have them pick you up at the house. Which I don't think this is very nice at all, a woman should be picked up for a date.

I've never had intercourse with one of these men we just kiss and cuddle and I make it very clear to them that I don't want to have sex with them.

Please don't judge me for sleeping at acquaintances houses I know it isn't particularly smart but I feel more comfortable their then in my own house and I can't afford to move out at the moment.