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Am I hopeless or not?

29yr old virgin thinning balding on crown, unattractive, no personality, bad dental hygiene, uneducated, poor, 6'0 maybe 61 but 145lbs. Bad skin during winter face gets red and flaky, no confidence or self esteem, no...
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What social stigma does society need to get over?

I think society needs to realize that boys/men that get abused by girls/women and we need to be there for them. Instead of telling them that they are wimps and they should be ashamed for what a female has done to them....
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How much do you care about looking good?

I seem to care a lot to look presentable at all occasions. Even in an ambulance with a freshly broken leg, I was smiling, genuinely. I tend to care a lot that people around me don’t see me at my worst. Even when...
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Girls, how did you raise your self-esteem?

I am struggling with a very low self-esteem. To say it directly, I consider myself very unattractive. I am 24 but compared to other women I look like a child. It's ridiculous that 16 year old girls look older than me. I...
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Can I be worthy of love?

ever since i could remember i always felt like i wasn’t worthy of love. my mom was always so busy with work and my dad was always sleeping (due to depression) or in the computer. now i have a boyfriend who also doesn’t...
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Why does everyman have a problem/complain with me?

Every time i have been dating or even having naughty time with a dude in my dating/relationships men are keep minding my looks or always dissatisfied with me. I know this because they always stop talking too me after...
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At 26, I thought I would get over not being pretty? Why does it still bother me so much sometimes?

I struggle with confidence and self esteem a lot. It was a lot worse 17-23… I had bdd. It’s gotten better but I still struggle. I struggle with feeling beautiful and good enough. I’ve never had sex, first kiss or really a...
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Inferiority complex?

I'm not wanting to self-diagnose myself, but I feel like I've probably got an inferiority complex. I'm not asking for advice on building confidence or anything helpful like that, I'm just wondering if it would even need...
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Should I consider dating a guy that falls in love with every girl who pays him attention?

He is smart, good looking, ambitious and well mannered but lacks dating experience. Since he feels very lonely all the time and due to his low self esteem he worships every girl that shows the tiniest amount of interest...
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What steps can I make towards the things that I want?

things I want: self esteem lasting joy hope/optimism confidence passion ambition desirability security romantic relationship to be physically fitter to be skinny to be a good swimmer the current obstacles (I...
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Why do people engage in "open" relationships? Isn't it just an excuse to cheat rather than just have friends with benefits or better yet, causal flings?

I'm honestly curious why people think open relationships are good or even healthy. What when Open relationships = an excuse for cheating The term "open" relationships originated with cheaters who wanted an excuse. A means...
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So this is how 6/10 women look like these days apparently?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/2b8UUIo4--M https://www.youtube.com/embed/VzQBRDHF2Lo Thank you random GAG user for this information!! 🙏 Much love 😙❤️ Luckily I am very confident and I don't really get hurt after reading...
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Why am I having more success with men now that I’m more average looking?

I used to be beautiful and slim and guys just wanted to be my boyfriend so they could have sex with me. It seemed like very few took me seriously. Now I’m chubby and mildly pretty, like most pretty, everyday women (much...
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Flirty and respectful vs creepy and annoying?

As a guy who is pretty confident in my appearance, I still get very nervous when talking with girls I find attractive, I want to get out of my shell, and get over the fear of rejection, but I have anxiety, and I’m pretty...
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Why are parents hurt more than we are if someone hurts us?

My first ex boyfriend hurt me mentally and psychological. The damage was done. Too much time was dedicated and invested for nothing. Even though I was the most affected party, the one that had to spend money on psychology...
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How do you deal with insecurities?

Its ruining my life (especially my relationship). I've always had little to no confidence and low self esteem. I only feel pretty (and a little confident) when i get all dolled up, the rest of the time i feel shitty and i...
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Why do people go after looks when your dating someone?

Let me give some context. Me and my girlfriend had a rocky start to our relationship and she would vent to her friends (and still does) about how I used to behave and how bad I was. They always say she's beautiful and can...
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Girls, how do you have the confidence to wear such revealing clothes at the gym?

I don’t understand it, but I would like to. I wish I had the self esteem to wear something so revealing but breathable at the gym. I get nervous and get a lot of social anxiety so I end up wearing a baggy shirt and...
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Why do I never get approached?

I’m 18. Haven’t gone out a lot and if I do it’s mostly bars and never clubs. I would say I’m attractive but I have confidence and self-esteem issues as well as being shy so that could be a factor, but at the same time I...
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Should I tell her I saw escorts/prostitdues in the past?

I'm in the talking stages with this girl. I'm not entirely sure if it headed somewhere but it does seem like it. This girl is just simply amazing. I haven't asked her out yet because she had some things she was going...
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