Inferiority complex?

[Anonymous]

I'm not wanting to self-diagnose myself, but I feel like I've probably got an inferiority complex. I'm not asking for advice on building confidence or anything helpful like that, I'm just wondering if it would even need to be something to worry about? Honestly it keeps me humble and kind to others. I crumble under the slightest disagreements and run from pretty much anyone who isn't super persistent. Does this problem even matter?

Fundamentally I think I understand the idea behind "love yourself" but I simply do not wish to. As long as others like me, that's good enough for me. I do, however, spend a ton of time being single or rejecting others on rare circumstances.

Why does self-esteem even matter? It's much easier to just ignore it. I'm not hard to like, I make sure of that however I can.

[Dkc123]

Most can relate! Afraid to lose get rejected n get criticized. Think about this average life span of an average man is around 60. I assume you're around 25 -30 you're only going to live for next 30 years and going to die in-between...

So what would you prefer dying after trying or without trying?

[Anonymous]

Self esteem matters because without it you're going to let people take advantage of you.

[Asker]

I completely agree. I am learning to say No on some things, though.

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you man

[boggboss]

Because being a push over is not a attractive trait if u are happy bring like that and dingle fair enough

[Jkgordon]

Elaborate please