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Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Can a shy guy be so shy that he won’t text his crush even after getting her number?
I left a note with my name and number on my crush’s car a couple of weeks ago. I know I should have given it to him in person but I always get too nervous around him to do it. I had been trying to do it for a month so I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is dating so hard as an autistic woman nearing 30?
I went on a couple dates with some guys and it just didn’t go far. No second dates. in February I talked to this guy for a couple weeks and last month we went on our first date. It was great until he said he doesn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when a married woman keeps asking me if I would save her or protect her?
OK, this is a weird one (to me). And I really can't figure it out. There's this married woman who is openly obsessed with me and has been for about 2 years. She's been curious about me longer than that most likely because...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 When a guy says 'take care of yourself,' does he actually like me?
For context, He’s someone I met in college. he always stares at me either long glances at me or when I’m not looking, he says my name frequently in conversation, makes jokes with me a lot, & always near me a lot. Anyways,...
Anonymous
(30-35) He kept looking at me even though he was talking to someone else?
I have a crush on this guy. So timeline: two weeks ago he was extremely awful and mean to me when i came to see him. Asked why I was there and was just being an asshole in general. Then a week after this we spoke and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?
I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...
Carina0
Xper 5 Age: 22 How do I approach women if I never see any clear interest signals?
Everyone always say look for "prolonged eye contact, smiling, playing with hair, mirroring your body language, finding reasons to touch, and leaning in during conversation" when talking/approaching women, but what if you...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it better being in a relationship or alone?
Dating for a gen Z male is really hard for most. Girls live on social media and seek perfection. Good looks, tall, in shape, rich, smart, enormousD I might have all those things and more - but it still is a kill joy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some men stereotype or resent tattooed guys so much?
Some guys are like "oh prison" or "no job" or "oh Mexico cholo gangsta" and various other things Are they literally convinced that a guy with some ink is automatically in jail, unemployment, or at least a gangster? Given...
Maddie248
Xper 1 Age: 16 Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
What is the thing that broke dating for women?
I made a my take on here a while ago about "Men Go Their Own Way". Long story short im not with them. I love ladies. I want it work. Not just for me but like love and romance in general makes the world so much...
Lost_in_the_Woods
Xper 7 Age: 29 How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Why did this guy from my university club go from staring and joking with me to suddenly ignoring me?
He used to stare a lot at me either from a distance or sometimes I caught him staring at me during our club events together. He used to make jokes with me, say my name a lot too, & used to be around me a lot too. He goes...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I build confidence in dating as a shy, introverted guy?
I am 23 yo male and i had one relationship, we were young and it all was kinda awkward. Since then nothing. The truth is i am kinda picky. Few years ago there was one girl i really liked, things were going well but then...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does this boy like me or am I delulu?
Okay so I need your HONEST opinion on something 😭 There’s this guy in my coaching. He’s very quiet, like extremely reserved, barely talks to anyone, usually sits alone (either first bench corner or last bench...
Anonymous
(18-24) She talks to everyone but ignores me alone—does she secretly like me?
There's a girl who talks to the other guys but not to me. She acts normal when we're in a group, but when we're alone, she barely glances up and then looks back down. To clarify, she's done things like touch my legs...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I text the waiter who gave me his number, or is that too awkward?
Should I reach out to him or do you feel it’s awkward and not appropriate? Yesterday my mom was in town and we went out to a nice restaurant and our waiter was a nice guy who looks like he’s a tad younger than me but we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does this guy actually like me back or am I overthinking it?
guys im SO SORRY for not being active, i genuinely forgot to update you guys! so the guy the previous questions were about and I have had some interactions, but not as much as last year since we only have one class...
shasha_masha
Xper 1 Age: 16 Are women chasing novelty?
A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc... That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had...
Anonymous
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