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I agree because have you noticed a lot of the women here post things about sleeping with men on the first date, strange men they met online, exchanging nudes with strangers, and constantly say things that are sexualy for male attention?

Why is she a red flag:

1. She is being manipulative. Dont trust the "sure I'm down for friends with benefits." It's a lie. She likes you and feels if she does this, you will EVENTUALLY like her back. When you don't, she will get angry.

2. Sometimes, women have sex with you immediately because we don't like you , lol. Yes, it's true. You're sexually attractive, but we don't see you as a long-term partner, so we have sex with you to get you out of hair.

3. She's having sex with you to trap you. She thinks sex with you will make you stick around because she knows sex is hard to come by for a man. Men are constantly rejecting or fear rejection, so they won't bother approaching a woman. Instead, a man will pay for sexual services before he is faced with rejection. It's a blow to the ego.

4. If she's this easy with you, she's easy with everyone else. She's not a woman who has a back bone, she's a doormat, has low self-esteem, self-worth, and weak genetics that can get passed on to your child. Let's face it, this is a survival of the fittest world. You want a woman who will reject other men when not in your presence. Not one who gets weak at the knees for everyone, man, that gives he 1 strand of attention.

5. Last but not least.. Are you ready.. Studies have confirmed that ugly women are more likely to be cheaters than beautiful women. Beautiful women have high self esteem, self worth, and are used to being hit on by men, so rejecting men who are not of quality comes easy to a beautiful woman. Yet beautiful women get a bad rep from men and accused of cheating because men often throw themselves at her.

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My dad says the man should. My ex said the same. I disagreed and wanted to take turns, or split. That made him feel uneasy...

Let's say it's not anything incredibly expensive - a coffee and ice-cream or low-ish entrance fee to a place, cheaper lunch/dinner... Really nothing lavish

What option is most comfortable for you? What do you think "the norm" should be? Where are you from?

I’ve seen mixed opinions. What are y’all’s thoughts? I personally think it depends on who asks but I don't know.

How do you tell the woman you aren't paying for her. Do you tell her before the date? Wait till the middle of the date? Wait till the check comes?

The 50/50 thing just seems so embarrassing on the man's part. I just wonder how y'all approach telling a woman you aren't gonna pay for her. It seems like something you should bring up before even going on the date