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Search Results: abusive
Why does he get a kick when I get anxious for his safety?
I decided to ghost a guy friend because he became too much for me. I find that he is so self-destructive he can bring me down with him if I get too close. For context, I got really mad at him because he got into an...
Ofoceans
Xper 4 Age: 35 Is it good I’m starting to feel my identity again?
So after being in a two year relationship with toxic physically and verbally abusive women I’m starting to enter a place where my individual identity is starting to resurface and honestly for two years it always took a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should females always be playing victim?
I know in relationship arguments women often tend to quickly play victim and call the guy abusive after a heated exchange, but a lot of times guys say they have their reasons. Is it really right to play victim? Or should...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I find myself constantly abandoning my friends?
My last best friend 5 years ago, i dumped her because she used me and forgot all about my value once she met her boyfriend. She didn't realized till i told her and she tried to come back to apologize but it was already...
Anonymous
(25-29) How would you feel and what is your view on this?
Person your dating who you’ve already shared “I love yous” with. Sees their ex and then tells you that they wish things worked with them because they are only settling for you. Now the person that said this to me is...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my guy friend always concealing things from me?
He just told me he got in an accident and said he hurt himself while riding a motorcycle and I felt that he should know he's not good at it so why do it? I just feel he always self-destructs. I got triggered when the time...
Ofoceans
Xper 4 Age: 35 Does knowing the person you're dating had an abusive ex make you less attracted to them?
It's not like their ex just woke up some day and started being abusive and treating them badly all of a sudden.. they let that person in , saw how bad they are , and then decided to stay , at least for a while.. knowing...
Starrrboy
Xper 6 Age: 29 Should I ask a former situationship if she wants something casual?
So I dated this girl I used to work with for a bit. Only went on 3 dates, and we got romantic but I never even reached the level of kissing her because I was a bit spooked by the fact that we worked together. Made it...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is she a narcissist?
I have a friend. I met her when I was 14 and she was 42 (horse people, so not super abnormal) She was my only friend for years due to my abusive parents isolating me. Is she a narcissist or am I crazy? Tells you you did...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does my flat mate sound abusive?
A few weeks after I first moved in, he got angry at me for putting my work things on the desk upstairs near his room. Instead of politely asking me if I could just move my things, he made a big deal about it, starting...
Anonymous
(25-29) 3 Ways to Not be Seen as "Creepy" as a Guy
According to an article in Business Wire, almost 70% of men report that the fear of being labeled "creepy" affects the way they interact with women. The fear of being creepy may in many ways be justified. According to the...
Cabarhev
Xper 1 Age: 27 Girl I went on a few dates with said she has genuine feelings for me, but isn’t mentally ready for a relationship?
Been on a few dates with a shy girl who only recently broke up with her abusive ex boyfriend. Yeah. I walked into this. Anyway, I noticed her interest waning over the last week and she’s not the only girl I’m seeing so I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think Jewish women are more likely to be fit cause their religion is more harmonious and produces less cognitive dissonance?
A psychiatrist says 80% of obese women were molested as children and I know women who were in abusive relationships that are obese. I also have a friend who was bullied severely to the point of police intervention and she...
What draws you to a person romantically (other than physical characteristics)?
I recently listened to Alain De Botton addressing employees at Google, and he was making a point about how we tend to be drawn toward people that feel familiar, rather than people who are good for us in romantic...
Would you wait a year to be with someone?
This girl and I been talking since may 18 2023. We finally met last year in September. Well she claims she’s not ready for a relationship but on her fb dating profile says she’s looking for a long term relationship so I’m...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you attract the wrong girls if your a good person?
Like I’m shy and quiet I don’t ever approach women except for this girl who I was in a relationship with and it turned out she was abusive. I also have major self esteem issues
Anonymous
(30-35) I’ve been depressed about the amount of women coming forward telling other women to never get married and have kids. I want to. How should I do this?
I’ve dreamed of finding a great partner for myself and being a wife. I also want to be a mother. However everywhere every woman is complaining online that men are really abusive and now I’m not looking forward to it. I’m...
Anonymous
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Diamondust
Xper 1 Age: 44 Do you drop a friend if they follow an abusive ex and his family on Instagram?
I've known this girl for over 30 years. We go through periods where we don't talk for years. During one of those years, she was following my ex and his family who were so abusive to me on Instagram. Naturally, I am pissed...
Ellew4
Xper 1 Age: 20 How do I tell my friend he's not funny without hurting his feelings?
I have this friend and he struggles a lot with ADHD and autism but he's a wonderful friend, he's a ture gent and has shown be so much kindness even when others have been cowards he's stuck by my side and helped me in very...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 