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Hi!

Did a post some days ago about my first date with a girl.
And this is... Well part 2..

Again, the first date went actually very well.

• The touchbarrier was broken.
• We laughed a lot together and she had open body language
• She seem genuinely interested and comfortable in the company.
• If you go by the book, everything about chemistry was there.

But after the date she became much slower than usual in response, like responding my follow-up text, but answered the day after the date (in the evening, usually it's when she wakes up ). She answered with a heart and admit it was a great date.

But lately since, I've felt a bit slow-fade from her. Not all the same quick response and energy.

Yesterday I said "I would really want to meet you again since we had a great time. Why don't we hook up on the arcade, next Friday?"

To that she answered, after yet again very slow answer "I would love to go out with you again, but as friends. But I understand if that's not what you want."

Questions.
Is this a lost cause?
Or is there still some chance to turn the tables?

I'm really interested in this girl, and she shared mutual before the date.

So my girlfriend of almost four years (live together) has always talked about her teenage crush (how she liked his personality, loved hanging out with him, his physical traits and etcetera), they never did anything physical that I know of (kind of untouched chemistry the way she talks about him), they've been friends on FB, Snapchat and Instagram since I met her but they weren't talking until early December of last year. here's the start of my issue, there was secrecy behind it. How I know was during December my phone broke and I had borrowed her spar phone and went on a family trip for a week to go Christmas shopping (while she was at uni studying for exams) and I didn't have the money to fix my phone and shop for presents. I got multiple all cap texts popped up from her best friend basically saying "OMG _____ MESSAGED YOU?". I talked to my sister about it and he said I should respect her privacy but talk to her about it and I did. When I asked her about it and why she was so excited about it and all, I asked what he said and she said he basically just said hi (which I found suspect) so I asked if I could see the message and she said she deleted it because she was scared. Last week she said told me after she went out with her friend in the story at the bar that he messaged her and asked to if she wanted to hangout, she said "obviously I'm not going to but what do you think" I was a little awkward but I told her like it to her but please handle it respectfully. She was acting weird all night after that and I couldn't get it out of my head why for days until I went through her phone and found this

I don't like or find her response respectful. It seems like she gave him a the right away on a night I'm busy. She knows I would never be okay with her going out with another guy and I feel like she completely entertained it. I know I'm wrong, should I feel this way and what should I do? I kinda feel cheated on already. What should I do?