Reasons for a guy to break it off?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys, soo I have a question: Is it possible that I seem to have good chemistry with a guy (once we kinda made out but didn‘t quite kiss yet) but then he loses attraction after he kisses me? Like, does that even make sense? Cause he seemed really into me and that one time when we were just really touchy but didn‘t kiss the chemistry was definitely there. But after 2/3 weeks we kissed and made out some more and after that he stopped flirting etc and it seemed like he also didn‘t want to meet up anymore… And I‘m just asking myself if it is because he lost attraction or something else… Like is it possible to lose attraction after a kiss? Because I do know that it was definitely there at some point

[DaveJord]

What doesn't make sense to me is how do you kind of make out, but not really kiss? You either did make out or you did not. If there was no kissing then you did not make out, you just fooled around a little.

Yes, it is totally possible, and it has totally happened to me. I was attracted to this woman, I mean I am 46 years old, and she was 44, so a totally grown woman. I was attracted to her, but man oh man... she turned out to be like the worst kisser of my life. Like it was terrible, I felt like I was back in grade school kissing someone that has never kissed anyone before. Like I cannot explain how bad it was. like her lips went in all the opposite directions as my lips, and her tongue was just there but not moving. There was noting soft about it, was like she just opened her mouth and let it sit there. TERRIBLE!!!

[runnerboy]

It seems like he just did not feel the chemistry or maybe found someone else.

[slatyb]

That's life. Most relationships don't last long.