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Just FYI you should never unconditionally love and respect someone who is a legitimate abuser and/or cheater. Nor should you unconditionally love someone who has no respect for you.

I say “legitimate” abuser because some people have made broadened out what is and what isn’t abuse. One example would be Jonah Hill’s ex girlfriend her so called “emotional” abuse allegations over Jonah’s texts. That wasn’t “abuse”. It just wasn’t what she wanted hear. All she had to do was say “well that isn’t going to work for me” and walked away. She wasn’t a victim or a slave.

But anyway most people should know what is and isn’t legitimate abuse. But do women expect more out of men then vice versa out when it comes to this?

For example women seem to demand more respect from men when a man breaks up. But when a woman breaks up with a man he’s usually expendable so anything goes on how she treats him during the process regardless if he did or did nothing wrong. Respect is optional.

Same goes when a polite man approaches her and she’s not interested. Society tells her it’s okay to be rude. But men don’t get that leeway when the roles are reversed.

Most people understant that physical attractiveness is the primary predictor of relationship and dating success.

If a person is not physically attracted to you they will not care about your other " good " aspects as they will not be shown.

Also if you are a good looking person a lot of flaws of your character are getting ignored/not taken into account or are given a more favorable judgement.

I believe my question is logical.

All my life, i was a shy and a little socially anxious guy. And never had a girlfriend. For the last 2 years, i started to work in the hotels, at the front desk.

A few weeks ago, this tunusian chick came to the hotel as a customer, she was smiling at me. She was educated, smart and cute. Wanted to join me when i was eating some chips and drinking coke.

Then another day we were drinking alcohol in the sea/beach's shaking bridge together, she hugged and kissed me a little. And i kissed her too. It was like a dream night to me.

Then i started touching her in a sexual way , she smiled and was not angry but she said we are just friends and she is a Virgin and i should stop. And all of a sudden i stopped because this is an important word to me.

Anyway we have spent 8 hours together in that night. This was a first to me. I was so happy. But maybe instead of waiting for my chance from women, i should chase my luck and approach people.

I am not a bad looking guy. I can make good jokes, i can talk in a lot of topics, but for some reason, i was never great with women and as a guy, i was always unhappy.

So I’ve matched with 2 different girls on a dating app, and kind of got into a situation where I may be double booked for next weekend. I have absolutely no dating experience but I’m trying to finally just be bold and go on my first date ever. However, I don’t want to hurt the feelings of either one of them, and I don't know how I should approach this. What should I do? I am leaning towards girl 1, but I might want to give girl 2 a chance.

Girl 1: Have matched on at least 3 different apps, lives close by, has a lot in common with me, seems quite attractive in pictures, seems like a really nice person and smart as well.

Girl 2: Moving to a town 45 minutes away on Monday from the opposite side of the US, originally from foreign country, different religion than me, very different from me in general, super sweet, looks absolutely gorgeous in pics.