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I think Gen Z girls have destroyed dating. Social media destroyed their brain cells.

On social media I see what girls I know like/follow and it’s clear that girls don’t have any realistic expectations and demand absolute perfection but don’t give it.

Basic pretty face and they all demand perfection! A perfect guy that will buy them a 300k car, 80k Rolex, while being over 6ft, super handsome and only loyal to her. This is the Instagram content I see most girls my age like.

Now maybe I can provide all that, but I hate the entitlement and inauthenticity of all this. It’s fake/artificial and sadly what girls are like.

Women no longer want to find a guy and be there for him and grow with him from when he had nothing, and add tremendous value to his life. Girls look at guys like ATMs, like how much can I take out of this guy.

Is dating still worth it? I’ve had female interest and I don’t know if I should trust them or gave given them a chance, or make a move etc… I just keep away. I wanna have a family but not with someone fake and selfish.

Ok me and this girl met when we were about 20 and had a great relationship for 8 years. I started drinking and it lead to us breaking up. She started dating a guy 2 weeks later I introduced her to. They lasted less than a year and we got back together exactly a year after separating.

I ended up finding pictures of her in sexy outfits and nudes on our old camera one day and some sexting stuff while going through our stuff in a closet I was cleaning out. I didn't tell her I found them. I spent the next 3 years trying to get her to send me dirty pictures. She broke up with me again and we separated for 3 years and then ended up back together again.

we've been back together over 10 years now and I have randomly tried a lot of times to get her to send me sexy stuff or sext with me, nothing has worked. This finally came to a head. I got tired of trying and getting nothing. We got into a pretty big argument about it and during the argument I find out that she thinks I'm talking about pictures she sent to another guy she dated right after we broke up the second time.

So both guys she dated right after we split she sent nudes and sexted with but whenever I have tried to get her to in the past I get excuses like she's worried about sending them because someone could get them for whatever reason which is all just excuses to me. So What, did you send them with pigeons the last 2 times.

Over the years this has gotten under my skin trying and never getting anything back. I usually have tried when I've been out of town for work or something. When I've tried sexting with her the responses have been either nothing at all or something that was just lame or her saying she didn't know what to say.

She says that she's been more sexually adventurous with me than anyone else ever. Our sex life I used to think was good but now I'm second guessing it. I usually make sure she gets off first and then she's in a hurry to get it over with. why is there no desire or lust there for her?