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I was at a friend's party. I have met his brother before but this is the first time we really chatted, about nothing in particular. he's quite attractive, reticent and chill, albeit mischievous. I didn't chat too much at the party, kept it low key.

As the night died down, a few of us were left, drinking and chatting. We both got along well, both of us were chill and quiet while others chatted. We talked a few times across the room, friendly and smiley, nothing crazy. Once everyone left, we all cleaned up and had some laughs about the night. Both he and I both slept over my friend's apartment.

The next morning, a few of us were watching TV and chatting, getting along. At some point when everyone was quiet, watching the show, my friends brother and I locked eyes across the room for a very long time, around 4-5 seconds of super intense eye contact. He looked into my eyes very calmly and confidently and I did the same back. Neither of us smiled but there was a noticeable intensity and potency to it, but nothing creepy or scary but rather... intense.

I can't tell what happened between us. It's really sticking in my head. The intensity of his look, I liked it a lot. He felt very confident and self assured.

I left and there was an awkward side hug and thats all.

Im normal weight (size 6) and this dude I slept with and wanted to see me desperately the next day said he couldn’t go on pursuing me because I’m too big for him and he needed someone skinnier so he would look dominant since he himself is quite slim (but at 6 foot 4 also quite tall). I was really upset about this and when I looked through his Instagram followings I noticed he followed many really young looking women with pubescent bodies (many borderline anorexic) that don’t follow him back. His best friend disclosed that while he is a friendly guy he tends to be manipulative and exhibits stalker tendencies with women. He still watches all my insta stories and keeps glancing and staring at me when he sees me in public despite rejecting me. The dude is 26 and refers to women as girls. Is that normal? Am I overreacting?