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Think upon this. If man judges you while you are living, he/she will not be in a position strong enough to evaluate your entire life but just pieces of your life. Of course, the punishment is necessary if you've done illegal things. God judges us after the entirety of our lives and that is a more complete judge as He will have all the facts and know everything you've done and sentence accordingly.

In case people are not aware, I do not believe all people in Hell get equal punishment. God is not a fool. He is a smart and wise Creator. He knows what is just.

To those who believes in the absurdity of an life not judged after death when not caught on earth. It makes your morality claims a sick joke. People could have lived as a Hitler or a saint and their life not being judged would mean that there can't be any good nor evil. If anytime I can propose a scenario where there could be a potential even ground for what those call good and what those call evil and there is no guaranteed separating factor that divides them into a Heaven and a Hell, then there can never be morality. Morality must be objective or it doesn't exist. Any opinion comes from you and would not be eternally grounded. That means anytime you make a judgment upon any action, you are therefore subconsciously invoking that you should be the god over their life. Otherwise, you'd not need to judge. If you are truly atheist like you claim, then you are indeed hypocritical to get mad at murder or rape or to be emotionally happy seeing people rescued.

it is absurd in the highest degree to think you can live your life as you please and it is a crap shoot whether or not you were caught by the law or not.

God haters may counter but wouldn't God know in advance how you will live your life and by knowing that, he ordained whether your life will be good or evil and that is a fallacy because God gave man free will and depending how we use our free will, God's foreknowledge would have been different.

When I was a younger man, I was consumed with foolish pride. I would never admit that I was wrong - not to my family, not to my friends, and not to my girlfriend. As I accumulated some experience, I realized how arrogant that attitude actually is and I began to wonder why my previous girlfriends had tolerated me enough to get past the first date!

When I accepted myself as a significantly flawed and defective human being, I then worried whether my partners would be willing to accept me if they knew that I was far less than perfect. Of course, that is an absolutely silly fear, but most fears are silly, aren't they?

I eventually moved past that fear when I accepted the fact that all of those secret fears and doubts that are locked up in my head. . . most everyone else has the same types of fears and doubts. Relationships are stronger when you realize that your partner is flawed and you can still love him or her anyway, and you know that they perceive your flaws but they still love you.

So I finally developed the ability to admit that I was wrong. The first few times required a leap of faith, but each time that I did it, saying "I was wrong" became easier.

Can you admit to your partner when you are wrong?