Search Results: how do you know when i a guy is serious about you

Do you believe people change? What would you do in this situation?

My boyfriend (29m) and I (30f) have been together a couple of years now. This is his first serious relationship so we agreed I would be patient with him, as he didn't know what is expected from him being in a long-term...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I just give up on dating?

Every guy I was interested in either isn’t into me or only see me as this “friend”. I’m nothing more than a friend. Some either got girlfriends or married. I don’t know if it’s because I’m too intimidating, not their type...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he just not that into me?

I have been seeing a guy (40 y/o) off/on for 10 months. 1st time we started seeing each other i ended it after 3 months bc I felt like he wasn't serious about dating me. He said he wanted to keep seeing me but didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I keep taking to him?

Me and this long distance guy decided we want to get to know each other for something serious. He’s a very dry texter. We text for a while then it goes dry. We FaceTime a couple times which was better. I told him to text...

champagnemami17

Xper 5 Age: 27

Flirting

Girls, How to respond if a guy is flirting in this way? He's been doing it ever since my shirt lifted by accident?

He's quiet and doesn't say much, but he's really strong and confident, and we've chatted several times. One time, I was tying my hair and my shirt accidentally went up. He walked by and lightly poked my unintentionally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I overreacting?

I met him around Christmas time from my sister. He seemed like a nice guy at first for a minute but as I got to know him things changed. I can't remember when this started but I remember we were playing a game the month...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a red flag?

I went on 2 dates with a guy and I was very impressed with how thought out both dates were. He seems to be very intentional with how he dates & sounds like he ultimately wants something serious. We did start getting a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he like me? How do I proceed?

A guy who has been a good friend for years is recently single. I can't tell if he is interested in more, just wanting a deeper platonic connection, or? I am ok with whatever... barring friends with benefits... but don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when an old fling contacts half a year later?

(Background information: I am 28 and the guy is 29) I met a guy back in January of this year and we clicked instantly. Our chemistry was incredible and we did manage to go on a couple dates but unfortunately, he had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When a guy doesn't want a relationship, would he probably commit if he fell in love?

My friend likes this guy and they were talking. He suddenly said he doesn't want a relationship, he isn't ready etc. But he knows someday he'll meet his future wife and commit. Is this usually code for: I like you, but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm almost 20 and this guy at my gym who is also one of the owner keeps messaging me asking me out even though I've told him I have ldr relationship?

I'm at my hometown for summer vacation from college and joined this local gym few guys approached me but were rather friendly/ backed out when they knew Im in a serious relationship (long distance) although this one guy...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should we break up?

I've only been seeing this guy for a month, so we're not in a proper relationship. At first, I thought he was laid back, but now I think he's more into me than I am into him. He says we're having fun, but he also bought...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I have my expectations set too high?

My friend group is a group of three of us and out of the three of us only one has any experiences with relationships. I’m going to refer to her by her first initial, T. T has been in a pretty serious relationship now for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What an I supposed to do and should I feel bad for this?

I just wondered how other people feel when admitting they've cheated in the past. For context the guy I've been seeing for over a year asked me if I've ever cheated, as it was a question asked during a TV show. So I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have two “boyfriends” and not sure what to do?

I 26F have met two guys I’ve been seeing almost a month now. I initially told both of them that I was looking to transition from having fun to looking for a more steady boyfriend. One of them is 27 and told me he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I make him leave his girlfriend before it gets more serious with her, like engagement?

There's this guy I've met whos charming and incredible, but has a girlfriend. However this relationship started a month ago, as he told me he has known her for about 6 weeks now. Both of them are quite impulsive as he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Why does he keep acting so different around me?

I thought this guy was flirting with me and he also loves giving me a hard time I think. We work together and he’s older and he’s given me compliments before on the way I smell and that I looked great which I don’t...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Is she into me, Im receiving mixed signs?

There's a girl I like at work. She seems very shy and I've tried to establish some communication with her. I've seen her talk to other guys like nothing even joking and laughing. With me she is different, get nervous when...

cluelessforlove

Xper 5 Age: 41