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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Why would a guy prefer a girl with tattoos?
Isn't it a turn off to most men? This guy from my class has an obsession with tattoos..
CoolCatMar1
Yoda Age: 22 My boyfriend almost killed meee?
OK, so I started dating this guy about three months ago he's been a sweetheart treated me right, we had small arguments once in a while about the little issues, but it wasn't anything really big, so a couple days ago me...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is the girls deal?
So there's this problem I’ve run into which is I’ve been interested in a girl for a little while now but I suspected she was also talking to another guy. Turns out I was probably right unless they’re just really good...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to stop blocking love from entering my life?
I’ve always believed that love is lovely and i still do, but part of me thinks that it’s not meant for me. I was that girl who dreamed of finding a great guy, marrying him and having a family. Then my dad made a “mistake”...
Anonymous
(25-29) Boyfriend dreamed I was making out with female friends. Am I overreacting for feeling uncomfortable?
We’ve been dating for a year and a half. He mentioned this dream to me during a conversation around kinks and it completely threw me off. For the record, I know dreams are sometimes just a dream and nothing more so I’m...
SimplyCurious223
Xper 1 Age: 29 Was this a Creepy encounter or something else ?
Yesterday I pulled to the side of the road near a big park at 7pm & that's when things got weird. I was sitting there looking something up on my phone and then some weird young women approached my car and tapped on my...
Fuentes
Master Age: 34 Guys, Is short hair a turn off?
I have a long pixie cut or a short bob depending on who you ask. I was just curious if haircuts like this will make it harder to get a guy.
A_StupidHuman
Xper 2 Age: 16 Is "double texting" really a thing? And a bad thing yet?
Why is double texting considered a bad thing? I've been seeing this guy for a year and sometimes I double text. Doing it never bothered me until someone said "if he doesn't answer he doesn't like you" "Guys don't like...
Wildone5
Xper 2 Age: 30 How do I accept that every guy that wants me is shorter than me?
Look short guys aren’t a problem, it’s my height that most guys are turned off by. I always get asked if I would date a shorter guy. Every date I had was shorter than me. No I am not shallow, my ex boyfriend was 5’7” and...
AmazonChick171
Xper 7 Age: 27 Do you think I dodged a bullet?
I met a girl at the bar, and I told her if she and her friend wanted a drink, but as we were there waiting forever. Thought my friends were leaving, so I apologized and left. Turns out they wanted to stay longer, and I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why I feel used when the guy I’m talking to ask for my help?
My love language is act of service. Why I feel used when the guy I’m talking to ask for my help? It’s nothing big. It’s just the help with assignment. I don’t know if I’m being insecure but I kinda feel like does he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong for wanting to leave a guy who makes nasty jokes?
So I’m dating an older guy for the first time. He’s 34. We just started getting to know each other. So everything is fine until the other night we were on the phone and I randomly asked him if he ever dated a girl around...
Kira439
Xper 1 Age: 25 How do I even approach this?
Something felt off so I checked boyfriend's phone. In his texts messages were texts between a guy friend of his and my boyfriend. It was obvious that something sexual happened between them. My stomach and heart dropped...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do guys find it a turn off if a girl suffers from mental health problem?
should I let him know I’m going through it that’s why I’ve been isolating myself
Anonymous
(18-24) Girl I got turned off by asked for my number and asks whether I am seeing anyone girls?
So a weird story. I was turned off by a girl because she would flirt with other guys and then come up to me and flirt and then get bored and then go off and flirt with other guys. She was also pretty rude and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I just stfu and move on?
Long story short, my friend invited me to a cabin. Everyone was drunk including myself, there were limited places to sleep and I ended up cuddling up with one of the guys there. We started making out and next thing I...
Angel_cakess
Xper 1 Age: 30 He has a lot of female friends, what should I do?
Summary: My boyfriend of 7 months has many close female friends, and I'm unsure about their boundaries. He recently went to his home country and spent time with two of them, staying overnight at one's house. He claims...
Anonymous
(25-29) At 29, am I too old for this website when I turn 30?
I've lurked here on and off over the years. I sort of feel like the Sexuality and Relationship and Dating sections that I enjoy most over the years, would get cringey once i am a 30 year old + guy writing answers or...
colaman94
Xper 5 Age: 32 Was my advice stupid?
There are 2 women I met when I was doing a business course 2 years ago. Anyways, we became friends and meet up every now and then. I thought we would all talk and share details of our lives. But it seemed they were...
lilyanony1
Yoda Age: 35 Anonymous
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