Search Results: wanting to be more than friends

Had a confusing heartbreak. Who was responsible for the miscommunication? Me or I?

A few months ago, I started communicating with a girl from my work and we hit it off really fast: soon we were going out together and we knew everything about each other's life. I started to like her more than a friend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just friends or more than friends?

Have a cuddle date planned on Monday with a girl I've been seeing, and we only just broke the physical touch barrier just over a week ago, so things feel like they're moving good but a little fast. She initiated it (and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he trying to get a reaction from me?

My friends with benefits and I have been messing around for 2yrs now. We never set boundaries and I just assumed it is what it is sex. But there's been more than a couple of occasions he likes to bring up the subject of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex totally mishandled our breakup. How should I be with her moving forward?

So long story, my ex and I had a mutual breakup. We were 16 years together, high school sweethearts. We have a 12-year-old child together. Less than 2 weeks after we broke up she tells me she's already dating someone from...

JT017

Xper 2 Age: 37

Am I the one who is the problem?

I need advice from people who aren't my friends. I've never really had luck in relationships, but I have learned from them. I will admit that I do settle for people who aren't really on my level. My current boyfriend at...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Education & Career

Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend

Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Got too drunk with a friend and maybe embarrassed myself?

I’ve got a good friend named Evan that I’ve known for almost 5 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and we’re in a little situationship about a year ago but that ended when he moved. We got back in touch and I went to go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend travelling halfway across country for 2-3 weeks to see family and im nervous! Anyone who can advice and share past experiences?

Boyfriend (21m) travelling to see family half way across the country in 2 months for 2-3 weeks, im (20f) nervous! Any advice and past experiences? My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 months and he finally...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Marriage & Weddings

What do you think about marriage?

I don't value marriage even a little a bit, although I'm married and have a child. It's just a bunch of useless roleplays to me. When I talk to other people, including my husband, about marriage, everyone's response...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating issues with fearful avoidance?

I met a guy who's way younger who has the sense of humor. At first, he was easygoing but two days of chatting and calling in for an hour at night (he wants it to be routine to call), he began to be way anxious if i'm late...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

No feelings but wants to cuddle, hold hands, etc?

Been seeing this girl for a couple of months, we spend time together weekly and sometimes more than once a week. She said she doesn't have feelings, but is open to them if they come. That's alright honestly, not a big...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would my ex message me a week later for a favor?

Long story short. Me and my ex were supper close for some months. We did everything you can think of and was a good girlfriend until the last week. She broke up with me over some petty thing. We talked, after the break up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this just friendly behavior?

Been seeing this girl. Last week we broke the touch barrier. Cuddled and held hands multiple times. Last night, we went to an event together and dinner afterwards, and went back to her house for a little bit before I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why would my ex reach out to me for help after she broke up with me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why would a guy in a relationship invite me to his house when his girlfriend is out?

He's living with his girlfriend for years and she's pregnant. We've been friends for months and we work together but I have a feeling there's a lot of sexual tension between us sometimes. He flirts with me ocasionally and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can anyone help me understand this guy and what does he want?

Warning!! Long Post So basically there’s this guy at school a grade lower than me, that I’ve been crushing on for a while. We had so many tension moments between us but yet never had a conversation with each other. So a...

Anonymous

(18-24)