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Boyfriend travelling halfway across country for 2-3 weeks to see family and im nervous! Anyone who can advice and share past experiences?

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Boyfriend (21m) travelling to see family half way across the country in 2 months for 2-3 weeks, im (20f) nervous! Any advice and past experiences?

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 months and he finally has the opportunity to go to his home country to see his family after 5 years for 2-3weeks. While im extremely happy for him, im a little worried because we usually see each other 2-3 times a week including sleepovers and not seeing him for half to an entire month straight scares the living daylights out of me. He was supposed to transfer to a city 3hrs by car for work but neither of us drive and due to some other circumstances he decided to turn it down. (I also cried a hell lot cause I wouldn’t be able to see him more than 1-2 times a month and it’d be that way for 4 months). Honestly we had an extremely rocky start and things just started to stabilize. While I think I trust him to not do wrong stuff im scared.
Who knows if we’d still be together in the next two three months but we both know we want together long term and make it work.
Calling too would be little hard cause our families dk about our relationship. My parents know we’re friends but im not sure what’s his story exactly, I think his mom knows. I’m just worried we might screw up communication and shit. Whenever we had arguments over text it never ever ended well.

Can anyone give advice?

Boyfriend travelling halfway across country for 2-3 weeks to see family and im nervous! Anyone who can advice and share past experiences?
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