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Been seeing this girl. Last week we broke the touch barrier. Cuddled and held hands multiple times.
Last night, we went to an event together and dinner afterwards, and went back to her house for a little bit before I went home. I wasn't expecting to be physical again, so I sort of positioned myself to show that. I went to use the bathroom when we got to her house, and when I came out she was on her couch and I sat on a step from her kitchen to her living room. (The kitchen floor is one step higher than the living room, so you get a better idea.) Then she invited me to sit closer to her, so I asked if it was alright if I sat next to her and she said yes. Shortly she scooted close to me so our bodies were touching, and I put my arm around her and we cuddled for a good bit. She also put her hand out so I could hold it (interlocking fingers). Then eventually she positioned herself with her feet/ankles on my leg when I was sitting upright. I motioned my hand to ask if I could put it on her leg and hold her there, and she gave me the greenlight. Just before I got up and left, she came in for a long hug and when I eventually tried to pull away so I could get up, she held me there not letting me and we hugged longer.
We aren't officially dating, and the best way to describe it is as a situationship. It's been almost two months since we started seeing each other and have seen each other weekly, sometimes more than once a week. We've gotten super close in this time, and she always tells how much she trusts me and that she appreciates how respectful of her I am. The reason we aren't dating yet is because she said she doesn't have feelings but still wants to explore the possibility, but I'm not so sure that's what is the case anymore. I'm fine just being friends with her, I just don't see how this level of physical touch could be for just friends.
Important context, she did say her love language is physical touch
Last night, we went to an event together and dinner afterwards, and went back to her house for a little bit before I went home. I wasn't expecting to be physical again, so I sort of positioned myself to show that. I went to use the bathroom when we got to her house, and when I came out she was on her couch and I sat on a step from her kitchen to her living room. (The kitchen floor is one step higher than the living room, so you get a better idea.) Then she invited me to sit closer to her, so I asked if it was alright if I sat next to her and she said yes. Shortly she scooted close to me so our bodies were touching, and I put my arm around her and we cuddled for a good bit. She also put her hand out so I could hold it (interlocking fingers). Then eventually she positioned herself with her feet/ankles on my leg when I was sitting upright. I motioned my hand to ask if I could put it on her leg and hold her there, and she gave me the greenlight. Just before I got up and left, she came in for a long hug and when I eventually tried to pull away so I could get up, she held me there not letting me and we hugged longer.
We aren't officially dating, and the best way to describe it is as a situationship. It's been almost two months since we started seeing each other and have seen each other weekly, sometimes more than once a week. We've gotten super close in this time, and she always tells how much she trusts me and that she appreciates how respectful of her I am. The reason we aren't dating yet is because she said she doesn't have feelings but still wants to explore the possibility, but I'm not so sure that's what is the case anymore. I'm fine just being friends with her, I just don't see how this level of physical touch could be for just friends.
Important context, she did say her love language is physical touch
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It doesn't really sound like just friendly behavior to me, dude. Holding hands, cuddling, putting your arm around her... that's all coupley stuff. And the way she invited you closer and was holding on extra tight during the hug, I'd say she's definitely into you.
Maybe she said she didn't have feelings at first so it wasn't official, but it seems like things are developing between you guys. I mean going back to her place after a date-like dinner and event? C'mon man, she's giving you all the signs she's interested!
If physical touch is her love language too, then all that cuddling and hand-holding is probably really meaningful to her. I'd go for asking her out for real soon. The fact you've been seeing each other so much lately and she's opening up about trusting you is a good sign. I bet if you make a move she'll be into it. You don't wanna wait too long or she might think you're not that into her. Go for it dude, sounds like she wants you to!
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