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It wouldn't be you asking about their exes, it would just be the person being honest, and telling you.

Its a very tough topic to talk about but I (26 M) sometimes do experience sexual harassment.

!! Before going further I do acknowledge that girls experience this from men as well and I do not want to deny this, I merely want to open up the conversation that it can go both ways!!

But when I talk about it with my friends they usually laugh it off because I'm a guy and specially female friends are like yeah I really doubt its close to what I'm experiencing.

Now with small stuff I'm not too bothered, like a girl when shouts like take me home with you when I'm out is kinda funny and easy to brush off. Although there are things that go too far. One example is that when I arrive at a gym I have girls staring at me and aggressively trying to take a peek when I'm changing clothes (it has subsides since I go there once or twice a day now and I'm quite a regular). This stuff does creep me out.

Also sometimes when I walk in jogging pants or something loose some girl will randomly grab my ass. This only happened twice in the last year but this really does cross a line.

The worst part is though that there is no right way to respond as a guy, if I get angry at her people will think im being aggressive to a helpless woman, and if I tell the truth people just stare in disbelief because I'm a man.

Now I will be honest that it's not the scariest thing to me since I don't go to clubs and I only drink water so getting something slipped in my drink is nearly impossible. I'm also physically stronger then 99% of other people I meet (men and women). But I worry since I have a girlfriend and we are extreemly prude with these things.

I wanted to ask for guys, have you ever experienced this and how do you deal with this? And for girls do you think this happens to guys and have you done it in the past?

And more importantly how to open up this conversation?

I'm of course not speaking about a life sentence because there's nothing to wait for but let's say he caught from 3 to 5 years, would you wait for him? Out of defending you he broke some laws and it got him time too, I need some opinions on this lol

Cause personally I lean more into the forbidden law we all know as "better safe than sorry" which means depending on the situation I'd do what is necessary to protect my loved ones and myself and I know for a fact if necessary I'd use unlawful techniques that will assure the safety of my loved ones, even if it ends with giving my life for them or as I'm asking here, jailtime, so it got me thinking, I know for a fact my family will always be there for me but will a woman? I've realized patience is getting harder to come across when it comes to relationships, based on my observations of course.

This question isn't a bash to our society but more of a genuine question I'm asking myself, I made a poll so y'all can be honest without the worries of being insulted or hated on.