If a girl had been single for a long time after a divorce would you judge her?

[Finfin1981]

If s guy asked and I was honest and said I’d had relationships since being divorced but the last one ended 4 years ago because he was trying yo rush into something very serious would it raise red flags for you?

[OlderAndWiser]

I "judge" every person I meet. I view their behavior, I listen to what they say, and I form conclusions about their character. I never judged a woman negatively on the basis of being divorced, having had prior relationships, or having children at home. I DID judge women if they were constantly trying to do battle with an ex, and I tried to stay away from women who had recently broken up a long term relationship.

[RavVid]

Was he thinking of children? He might have seen a clock ticking. Not saying it was a good idea but might be a reason.

[Finfin1981]

Thanks for your reply. No he’s got children so all ok on that score

[RavVid]

Ok that wasn't it then.

[HighValue]

Being single for a long time is much better than doing like many people and having lots of casual encounters.

[Alex8736]

Absolutely not. Trying to get back into the dating game is tough especially when you're with someone for so long and noticing times and people are much different (not for the better) you will be fine. Just take things a day at a time ❤️

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, that would be a green flag in my opinion.. I means she had the self control to wait to get into a better relationship..

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah it's understandable, I wouldn't expect anyone that went through a divorce to be eager to jump into dating again.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, after my divorce I didn't want to date anyone.
I had a lot of 1 night stands.

[Alex-Snow]

I would not... each person is different and just may need more time to get social again

[nawtee_me]

If you ask me four years is not that long to not be in a relationship. It has been a lot longer for me….

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as a single woman... they are always active in some way...

[art84]

I wouldn't as not everyone gets back into dating after a divorce.

[KrakenAttackin]

"Single" means she has been riding the cock carousel long and hard.

[Tellme]

No, not at all. Why should it?

I’d try to be understanding and encouraging.

[NathanDavis]

I don't "judge" like that, no...

[collie22]

That's not impolite

[BLP11520]

No I would not

[Anonymous]

No. But I would judge her on the divorce.

[Jmmmfi4]

Nope

[balyai]

I won't judge

[Hulk30]

no not at all

[eagle1951]

nope