i’ve just started dating (never cared if i found a partner during my teens since i was busy enjoying other areas of life) i find it enjoyable at most to have the idea your date could end up falling in love. but, shouldn’t it be natural?
for example dating apps and blind dates seem so forced. it’s like wearing a sticker saying “i’m lonely please i need company nearly anyone will do” especially people in their 20-30s.
i remember in HS or college girls and guys would be kind of upset being single but it was never forced, yeah we had stupid boyfriends that lasted a week but the next week we would do / find something else.
shoudnt love just happen? i get the loneliness but if you can’t bare being without the touch of a man / woman why not go to a brothel? i know it sounds harsh but to be honest any “forced” dating to find a partner is desperation to fill an empty void.
or am i just content enough with my own life? i go out and interact with many people, many temporary, some long term, and i find life to be a book that i page through and im the handler, going through temporary things and just being free though life.
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Because no one wants to find a person organically anymore. Guys are afraid to ask a girl out more and more now and girls feel that the guy needs to ask the girl out. So they go to dating apps which is sometimes a success but more often than not a failure. I agree with everything you said but unless you live in an environment where dating organically is high like LA or NYC, its not likely to happen.
How is love supposed to happen tho unless u mean guys approaching u randomly on the street which many are doing at a decreased rate the reason many use dating apps as its a environment made to try and date where as many are not comftble doing it irl
workplace, friends, clubs, social environments, nightclubs, friends in common, gym, extra activities, people you naturally start talking too.
i have had so many opportunities (i’m not looking for a relationship right now though)
If guys are approaching women less in the current day and age which they are with man women saying guys simply don't speak to them about dating how are they supposed to find love
I dont go out looking but I've liked guys n some flirting it can happen when ur in social groups
I know it can happen in these situations but for many on dating apps they are not apart of these interactions and thats the point I was trying to make
Mmm seems to just be the times. Here I am at 29 almost 30 and still single. Go figure 😅😁