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My boyfriend of 7 years doesn’t have me on Facebook. Removed me when he tried to cheat years ago then never added me back when we got back together. At the time he tried to cheat everything was made super private from me.

At his work yesterday they stalked his Facebook and found ugly photos and brought it up in their “staff meeting”. It was a girl who I assume he’s into that stalked it and asked for it to be brought up.

Did he go private to hide it from his work friends who has already seen it. Or did he hide it specifically from me so I couldn’t see if they had liked it to find their facebooks? So he could cheat in peace again?

I can’t see him hiding it from his work friends

And the girl that stalked him is immature enough to add him and like it and he’d want that hidden from me for some reason. Even tho his own words is “were leagues apart” I’m so much prettier but then he doesn’t care about pretty just wants a decent person.

He called me immature for being bothered that they stalked his Facebook to find photos of me his girlfriend to see what I looked like … I was so embarrassed people still do that. They are only 19-20 and we’re 26. They expected me to look “stressed” at my age.

I am in a relationship with a really really awesome guy.

In uni I got to know someone else. With the time him and I became very close. He told me he likes me and I haven't't been able to stop thinking about him. We never went further than hugging though.

Now whenever my boyfriend kisses me or tries to initiate something more I actually feel like I am cheating on my friend.

So a female friend of mine (has a boyfriend) has been flirting with a male friend of mine (single) for quite some time I think. The things she's done are:

- Kiss him on the cheek multiple times when out (drunk)
- gives him more hugs than others when out drinking
- told him he was perfect height for her
- Offered him a zip of her drink multiple times when out drinking, but no one else
- Complimented his eyes
- Put her finger in his mouth while drunk
- Snuggled his hair
- told him he was cute
- been hesitant to join longer trips, but suddenly become interested when told he was joining as well. She initially rejected the trip, but was suddenly interested when told she and him would be sharing a room and bed alone (the trip was cancelled in the end). Later when asked if she wanted to join a similar trip without him she wasn't interested.

Most of these things have happened in front of friends (but not her boyfriend). What do you think it is? Am I crazy or is this happening?

My boyfriend and I got into a fight (we had lived together). He told me that I should go stay with my parents for a few days and think about who I am as a person. (Long story short i am going to move back in with my parents because it'll hopefully improve my mental health). While I've been at my parents he's been distant and just seems like he doenst care even though he says he does. The second night I was at my parents, he was on snapchat on the phone with someone the entire night and even fell asleep on the phone together. I had asked him about it and he said it was a guy friend that he made off of an app. Honestly I feel like there's someone else and he's not being honest about it. Don't know what to do.