Well reading this got me irritated for you too. BUT here is the little misstep you might have done to add to it. And it will help in the future because you have control over it.
at -"Why is ---- timed out" if you could have replied, "I had enough for now I need a brake before I blow up and do something I regret!!!" or something similar. Then time her out again. He (they both) might have seen that you are getting upset with it.
at - "he asks me what's wrong."you said "nothing" you could have said "why when I am ready to talk you talk to someone else FIRST. AND THEN call me back and say you are ready. But listen I moved on. I got my nails to do, dishes to wash and other things more important now. See how that works?" or something like that.
But listen I thank you for showing me how stupid men can be. I learned here that It would be better to ask first before timing out someone. And put you first when you are ready to talk. I will certianly use that if I ever get a chance with a decent lady.
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You end with "he's cheated before". Start with that next time, why oh why are you still with this POS, he gets his cake amd eats it too.
He doesn't respect you, don't waste your time with him.
I would drop them both. A real friend like she’s supposed to be would never ever openly flirt with your boyfriend the way she does. As for him, he should not have that sort of dynamic with your friend, especially doing separate phone calls talking about god knows what. Even the fact that you three are in a group chat carrying on like a polygamous relationship (if that’s not what you want) is ridiculous. But I’m not surprised since you are all in high school. Anyway, they’re both toxic asf unless she stops trying to third wheel in your relationship then I’d let them have each other and be done.
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He’s cheated on you before? Dump his sorry ass before it happens again.
Sounds like you brought it on yourself.
i don;t waste my time
oh grade school drama
If tonic a friend?
Drop him, move on.
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