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How to stop falling in love with people who are kind to me?

For context: my childhood was spent in a big, joint family full of judgmental elders. Growing up I was very quiet and shy and never really had much friends. I went to an all-girls school as well. I was never approached...
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Do you think my friends are right that I’m making excuses to not hangout and just take a break?

So my friends are planning an outing and it’s this coming Sunday. I wish it was next weekend because I have to study for midterm exams. I told them I have exams but they just said okay. My friend said, “Well we understand...
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Why Healthy Sibling Bonds Are Rare in Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents

In families with narcissistic parents, genuine sibling bonds are often rare. Even if they appear healthy on the surface, a closer look reveals underlying dysfunction. Instead of mutual respect and support, these...
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Why am I crying and grieving so hard about my guy friend moving on?

I guess everybody tried to warn me about the rotten ex boys friends I’ve had and I was told it’s because I’m avoiding a real, true, loving relationship. My best friend said my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) as what...
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Why are so many men inept on pursuing a woman?

Story: I matched with a guy 36 years old. He wanted to be FB friends so we talked a bit on there. Next am he asked if I wanted to do something today, I said sure what did you have in mind. He said depends on the part of...
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Why does he acts like this? is he just shy or doesn't like me?

there is this guy I know through a mutual friend. My friend told him that I think he is cute and that I want to be his friend. When we met, a lot of his classmates were there and we didn't talk because we were both shy. I...
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Lowkey got mad and was rude to my bestie and now she’s ignoring me I don't know what to do?

So my bestie and I have been friends for over 2 years. We’ve stopped talking multiples times of months due to nonsense and either of us fkin up and once my ex caused issues. I felt bad so I did a surprise bday for her and...
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Learn to Stand On Your Own

Alright, everyone, I’m gonna have to break out the piano and play “Lifting Dreams” for this one. Just kidding. Although I write this as a Take it is something I’ve always done in real life and decided to share it here. So...
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Can focusing on career lead to complete avoidance?

I recently dated this guy, 7 years younger than me. At first I was iffy about the age difference, but our instant connection made me feel otherwise. Everything was perfect. Great conversations & always had fun in each...
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Why do some guys just not take the hint?

Ok so let me Clarify for what I’m about to say. I’m not saying walking up to girls is he worst thing in the world some places it just baffles me, like have SOME class. I was going to the bathroom the other day and this...
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I saw someone from my distant past it was quite surreal what should I do I about it should I tell his ex his daughter who has been looking for him?

He was my coworker. We were friends. I had a little crush on him but he never noticed me. He had a really bad substance abuse problem at the time. I am glad we didn't end up together. I don't want him or anything. I just...
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Am I wrong for feeling this way?

My friends boyfriend really cares for her. Like my boyfriend let's me do what I want and her boyfriend always tells her to get off the game when she's not feeling good. And tells her to go to sleep. My boyfriend...
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If You Were Raised Religious Did You Stay Religious?

I was raised in an extremely religious house hold. My Grandfather started the church that we went to, my father was an elder and my uncle was the Pastor. Now my older brother is the pastor of the church. So yeah, I was in...
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Did I ruin the vibe by being honest?

I met a guy at a concert, and we’ve been talking almost daily. Our conversations often last over an hour, and we’ve built a strong connection. Due to work and logistics, we haven’t seen each other again, but the...
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What woman's height looks best next to her man at 5 foot 11 to date 🌹?

Surely I'm just asking for a male friend - ha! Let's not feel the obligation to go into weight or other body dimensions lol 👅😛 unless y'all chose to. Type to. Lol. Who doesn't love a poll. 📉📈
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Surely I'm just asking for a male friend - ha! Let's not feel the obligation to go into weight or other body dimensions lol 👅😛 unless y'all chose to. Type to. Lol. Who doesn't love a Show More
5 foot
Under 5 foot
5 foot 4
About 5 foot 9
Taller than him
Same height / 5 foot 11
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Girls, Is there any way to do this that doesn't come across as creepy as fuck?

I'm incredibly touch starved to the point it's fucking with my head and making me consider "Damaging" myself. Some nights I cry myself to sleep. I've given up dating, but I just want touch, all I want is a hug that's it....
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I'm incredibly touch starved to the point it's fucking with my head and making me consider "Damaging" myself. Some nights I cry myself to sleep. I've given up dating, but I just want Show More
No, there's really no way to not be creepy about this.
Yes, I'll explain.
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Girls, Ladies, Can you take a compliment?

Hi Ladies! Ok, so true story, a good guy friend of mine once sat at our favorite bar and "outlined" all my attributes for me in a way that was just matter-of-fact, like a lawyer making a case for his client. In closing,...
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Hi Ladies! Ok, so true story, a good guy friend of mine once sat at our favorite bar and "outlined" all my attributes for me in a way that was just matter-of-fact, like a lawyer making Show More
I'm great at accepting and basking in all sorts of compliments. I know I'm amazing. Bring it...
I'm ok at accepting compliments and always have a kind word in return.
I'm bad at accepting compliments. I never know what to reply and often just deflect compliments.
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What do you think of a guy smacking his female friends butt playfully and she ok with it?

Scenario: He's autistic, she's neurotypical. She lets him smack her butt playfully sometimes, in joke context she laughs and giggles and also smacks his butt. Just Friends
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Is it okay to take things slowly?

I have two men who’ve decided they’re interested in me. As well as a third one that seems to be subtly flirting with me, who has a girlfriend. I know I like two of the men and one as a friend, but I haven’t decided how...
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Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?

My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was...
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