Search Results: friends turned on me

Mr. interupting?

Okay men…. I was talking to my guy friend who’s only just a friend. Just the normal “how are you?” “What’s new?” Once we stopped talking and I started a new conversation talking to another guy making small talk, sharing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help me out with this dude?

A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don’t even know he confuses me?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was she trying to turn me off?

I had a crush on my friend Liz for a couple of months. One day, she randomly texts me asking me if I liked her. I said yes and she told me nothing would ever happen between us. I decided to distance myself, but then she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why was she being hot and cold with me? Does she like me but is trying to hide it or does she hate me and is being fake nice?

My friends planned an all-day hangout, but I couldn’t join until later in the day. When I catch up with the group, I greet everyone, but one woman in the group (Caroline) ignores me. She then turns to the 2 women sitting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my guy friend ignoring me?

I told my guy friend I had a crush on his best friend and he has been ignoring me since. We were cool days before and suddenly after telling him that he no longer speaks and also turns his head away when we make eye...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why are women so blind?

Women complain "where are all the nice guys" yet they put them all on their friends shelf and picked up the rotten guy who treats her like shit! Then once she's used and broken, alone, single she will be left wondering...

LadiesFavoriteToy

Xper 7 Age: 23

Confused about weird experience with coworker I used to date? Does she still like me?

I used to date a coworker earlier this year. We didn’t have a formal relationship, and after a few months, she ended things because she wasn’t over her ex. Although she said she still had feelings for me, we tried to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ladies, have you dated a guy who didn't want a relationship?

How did the outcome turn out because I have no interest in datings or relationships with anyone. No, I'm NOT looking for friends with benefits or sex. I have my hobbies like computers to keep me busy, then worrying about...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Gave a Fast Food employee my number but my friends says I shouldn't have?

There was this really cute girl at the register. I complimented the first time I went there and said she was pretty. She said thank you and I did my order. I went in again like a month later not expecting to see her....

thebestalt

Xper 5 Age: 25

Is it love or lust?

I used to have a huge crush on her. She rejected. She was a strong independent girl then. We got in touch after university. Her boyfriend ditched her. She agreed to be in no strings but was very clingy. Calling me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, what words do you like as physical complements?

Do you mind if a male friend or first date complements you on how you look? What words would make you feel good? What words would turn you on? What words would you find sexist or a turn off?

stratford

Yoda Age: 37

Girls’ what turns you on more? a confident guy or a shy guy?

From my experiences with girls , most girls’ I came across were attracted to a confident guy , over a shy guy , I am not saying girls’ don’t like shy guys’ but it seems confidence works best? I use to be somewhat shy , I...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

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Which of these super-villains do you think is most powerful?

Tetra Age: 29 Gender: female Class: 4 Telekinetic (1000 tons class) Her body is made of an extremely dense carbon allotrope which is nevertheless alive. It has a Mol's hardness of 10, similar to Diamond. She is able to...

SeekerOfTruth007

Xper 7 Age: 45

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Relationships

Have you ever had a loss turn into a benefit?

I had a dream that if I trusted God, He would turn my problems into solutions and my setbacks into privileges. An example is that I used to feel bad I did not have the confidence to talk to guys as a teenager and got too...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Relationships

How to get over a crush and just be friends?

I've had a crush on someone for years. We've gone from being acquaintances to friends. There is mutual affection and we both know it. Circumstances however make it impossible for us to be together. She has been in a...

Tarifa

Yoda Age: 45

Would you remain friends with someone who tried to kiss you after saying they wanted friendship only?

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go. I regularly have physical therapy for chronic dizziness. Therapists change...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go. I regularly have physical therapy for

Alright. I was not going to ask about this bc I really do not think there was any bad intention, on the other hand it’s bothering me so here I go.

I regularly have physical therapy for chronic dizziness. Therapists change every few months. This last one I clicked with immediately. He gives me exercises and answers questions. There is no physical contact.

After my sessions ended, seeing as we get on pretty well & with him being new in the area I invited him out platonically— just me showing him around.

I made it clear I am not interested in dating. He said he travels so he’s not about dating atm, we understand each other. No problems.

Fourth time we met up mind you this was over three months period of time- we weren’t meeting up constantly. It was very late we were listening to street music playing their last song, he moves in (slowly enough for me to stop him - I give him props for that) I stopped him. I asked him ‘you said you wanted to be friends. We both agreed?’ He said he did. He does. He was just feeling very friendly. 👀 👀

I knew he was joking so I laughed but then my mind went back to the issue which was:

1. I do not want to get involved.

2 I thought he didn’t want to get involved.

3 he basically lied to me.

And here’s the thing. He answered me honestly but I now doubt I can trust him.

he said he kind of assumed I was just saying I didn’t want more than friends bc everyone says that (((do they?)) and we get on well so he thought he’d just wait and see.

it doesn’t bother me he turned out to be a bit interested or that he tried to kiss me or even him lying bc he didn’t have an obligation to tell he if he was interested in anything - as long as he accepted I wasn’t.

It is the fact he assumed I was lying and I’m quite tired of people thinking I am playing a game when I’m direct. Even nice people.

He didn’t trust me & I don't know if I can trust him. BUT he did come clean. He could have played it off as a misunderstanding.

What would you do?

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Relationships

Being Bi is a free reason to cheat right girls?

Women are always saying these stories of we were drunk and kissed... Maybe wanna try being bi? Yet she is flat out cheating. We talk all the time and really connect and I have a boy friend so it's okay. We just kissed 3...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women are always saying these stories of we were drunk and kissed... Maybe wanna try being bi? Yet she is flat out cheating. We talk all the time and really connect and I have a boy

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