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I have been having problems like mental hospital visits at random where I would have to stay at the hospital for like 7-14 days sometimes 30 days or even 2 years this is not a normal hospital it’s like a hospital with a fullsize bed and 3 meals served a day…!

they’d take away all your clothes and give you a scrub outfit and take away your cell phone and electronics items rarely can u keep it

fast forward now the visits have stoped but now they’ve started medication for a condition I don’t even think I have and so like there’s a monthly visit for a shot to the doctor and it seems unreasonable they said they’d like to continue treatment until the age of 70ish that’s like 12 shots a year times 40 years that’s like 480 shots

it just seems unreasonable at first phone just had my contact information but I accidentally gave them my mom’s information too , I have no idea how to convince her to ignore the doctor’s calls and to stop treatment

I feel harassed

I could always move out the treatment will stop but I’ll have to pay rent

what do I do

I have been working at my current company for almost 2 and a half years now. I've recently developed a crush on a colleague, but we've always had a flirty relationship. However, due to our situations, it would be almost impossible to have a relationship together. He's always been lovely to me and the flirting included things like him doing silly things to get my attention, staring at me, prolonged/strong eye contact, going out of his way to help me, seeming jealous about other men, organising the gifts/cards for my 30th birthday etc etc. I've always felt fairly confident that he felt the same way.

HOWEVER, a few weekends ago, we met up on a night out. I had too much to drink and I ended up telling him that I really liked him as more than a friend. I asked him if he liked me back, to which he said "you're a lovely person". I kept asking him, being persistent with it - he kept repeating “you’re a lovely person” and I eventually said "just answer the question", to which he replied "yes, I do but we can't be together etc". I think we had a few quick kisses on the lips, not a proper kiss, but a peck.

The day after, I apologised to him for potentially putting him in an awkward position, to which he said "don't worry about it".

The next week at work, he apparently wasn't aware of what happened. I told him that I had kissed him and he looked shocked, saying "that's not ideal, I wouldn't have kissed you properly". For the rest of the week, he barely spoke to me and was hot and cold in his behaviour towards me.

He has gotten better but he doesn't flirt with me like he used to before all this happened. He has shown being jealous because he overheard me saying I was going on a date. I saw him look in my direction and when I told him to have a nice weekend, he abruptly said “bye”

Was there any truth in him telling me that he likes me? Does he still like me? If so, why is he being weird?

I started wearing glasses in 2010 and I always hated having to do so. But I’m not brave enough to try contacts. When I first got them, I got annoyed that some classmates kept calling me auntie and some even said I looked like my grandma. I was practically walking around near blind just to avoid hearing that shit. I once switched to the transition glasses but then was told i looked like a hippie. Once I got to college, dudes seemed to be more into me wearing glasses. But the dude i’m with now kinda annoys me with his unwanted opinions. He’s constantly saying “You’re so fckin pretty with your glasses off. You’re just so fckin beautiful with your glasses off.” Like damn, what am i when I have them on? Chopped liver? Lol. I mean I’m not the biggest fan of his glasses either since they remind me of the serial killers in The Lovely Bones, but he's still a fckin hot peter parker whether they are on or off. He’s just gonna have to deal and I just have to accept the lack of his compliments when I have em on because a mf cannot see clearly 😂🤷‍♀️ Plus the only time he seemed to be into me with my glasses on was when i popped the lens out of my 3D glasses 😩 #FeelFreeToList